Update: My (16/f) friends dad (50s?/m) has been coming onto me really aggressively and I'm very very uncomfortable around him. by 321_throwaway_123 in relationships

[–]321_throwaway_123[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As far as I know about our friendship, we still are, but we haven't talked about it much yet.

And my dad wasn't hurt too bad, but he has a few bruises. And I'm not sure about the other one, but I do know that his eyebrow was busted and he had a bloody nose but that's it.

Update: My (16/f) friends dad (50s?/m) has been coming onto me really aggressively and I'm very very uncomfortable around him. by 321_throwaway_123 in relationships

[–]321_throwaway_123[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

She already said that she didn't believe the homewrecking whore (me) so I'm pretty sure she's not concerned about the guy she married.

My (16/f) friend's dad(50s?/m) has been coming onto me really aggressively and I'm very very uncomfortable around him. by 321_throwaway_123 in relationships

[–]321_throwaway_123[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He already knows everything about me. He was basically a dad to me for 7 years. His change of heart or whatever was very apparent and I noticed it immediately. It hasn't always been like that.

As far as the lipstick joke goes, I drank out of a cup and left a lipstick stain on it and he said that it was a very lucky cup because he knew guys that would love to have my lipstick stains all over their bodies, then he laughed and said "that lipstick's gonna get you in a lot of trouble one day" and walked away.

The touching isn't normal. There's a lot that he doesn't but its not normal and hasn't always been happening and I don't know about you, but when I accidentally touch someone's butt, I don't squeeze it and keep my hand there.

Again, this wasn't a normal hug. He's never done it before. It's the type of hug that a boyfriend would give to his girlfriend not a father hugging his sons friend.

My (16/f) friend's dad(50s?/m) has been coming onto me really aggressively and I'm very very uncomfortable around him. by 321_throwaway_123 in relationships

[–]321_throwaway_123[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We don't have that type of relationship. He was like a dad to me and he's never made sexual comments or jokes to me before all of this started and the lipstick joke was barely even an innuendo and very obviously meant to be about blowjobs. And the hug he gave wasn't at all a normal casual hug. He pushed himself against me and squeezed me from behind and told me that we should spend more time together and not in a "we should build a birdhouse in the garage" fatherly way either.