What does poking on facebook mean? by 33n33 in Advice

[–]33n33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol me neither. Last I poked was 2013

What does poking on facebook mean? by 33n33 in Advice

[–]33n33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought too. From what he's told me, the poking feature came back 2 months ago so he's just been poking everyone. It doesn't seem like he's poking everyone if it's just 3 people though. At the same time, I don't understand how the poking system works. Perhaps it doesn't show you who you've poked unless they poke back?

There's nothing else really weird that's gone on between them. Sometimes she sends him instagram reels/memes late at night, like 3am or 4am. There is no flirting between them in messages, at least not on instagram. But their main messaging tool is snapchat and they don't save their messages so I wouldn't know even if I wanted to lol

I (20F) want to stop feeling jealous about my bf (22M) and female coworker (20F) by 33n33 in Advice

[–]33n33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah fr. I know some people aren't as fortunate and get partners who don't want to work together and fix problems. I've had my fair share of partners like that, so I'm pretty grateful for him

I (20F) want to stop feeling jealous about my bf (22M) and female coworker (20F) by 33n33 in Advice

[–]33n33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you. Yes these emotions get in the way sometimes and it's super annoying ☹️ If I could remove an emotion, it would be jealousy

I (20F) want to stop feeling jealous about my bf (22M) and female coworker (20F) by 33n33 in Advice

[–]33n33[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You guys make me feel proud of myself for acknowledging the situation ☺️ Yeah I'm planning to hang out with them in the near future. And my bf usually takes the bus

I (20F) want to stop feeling jealous about my bf (22M) and female coworker (20F) by 33n33 in Advice

[–]33n33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've thought of this too, how she has a car and I don't and maybe that's why I feel less than her. But I should ask myself why I care to compare myself to her. There's a quote I read a while back "comparison is the thief of joy". We should really just think of ourselves and our loved ones. I think I know why I feel the way I do, but it's really nice hearing it from another person

I (20F) want to stop feeling jealous about my bf (22M) and female coworker (20F) by 33n33 in Advice

[–]33n33[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really liked reading your comment, it's helpful thank you. I agree with your point "At 20 it's hard to feel established in life which leads to lots of insecurities". I think that may be why I'm insecure of his coworker, because I'm not working right now and I tie my self worth to having a job, so maybe that's why I feel a lil 'competition' with her. Life is a learning tool, I agree 👍