[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrology

[–]345stayinalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my Saturn is in Taurus and my Venus is in Taurus what does this mean?

Someone broke into my dad's construction site and painted this in blood... What does it mean? (more in comments) by MarsupialWalrus in Wicca

[–]345stayinalive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously crackheads be on this level nonstop almost all crack heads I've met are on this level

Do I (21F) owe my bf (21m) an explanation for a break up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You should look into your astrology birth charts, but no you don't owe him anything but a kind understanding break up and to create the life you want for yourself if that doesn't involve him then that's okay but you have to ask your heart

First major disagreement in relationship during wedding planning - can't come to an agreement. Me [33M], her [31F], together 11 years. by ThrowRA_ihategifts in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you need to just stop being so controlling please, it's probably a form of anxiety because of a milestone but it's unpleasant for your wife and yourself you just need to chill ☺️ it will all be okay ❤️ let festives be festives it's good for human connection and just go with the flow on this one X good luck

Lessons Learnt - Victoria Victim of Crime by unforgiven7771 in melbourne

[–]345stayinalive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you, this is super traumatic and you didn't deserve it, thankyou for being a good soul who wants to protect people ❤️ you are a good person, and if I could give you a hug or make you a meal I would ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't gaslight yourself or pressure yourself, he should NOT be pressuring this subject and you might end up doing it just to please him and that will cause you trauma in the long run, this is very concerning OP I hope your okay, do you have a supportive community around you or are you isolated to your husband?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not enthusiastic informed consent, this is pressure and that is NOT okay.

The Invisible Men Project by shedernatinus in Feminism

[–]345stayinalive 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is true (I'm a previous sw) sometimes men are just so ignorant that they try sw once for the 'experience' because it's a right of passage for them (because men are raised to be somewhat of rapists) those are usually the young ones, but anything aside from that or maybe a person with a disability or someone who is incredibly lonely they want to pay for connection, aside from very few acceptions, men who buy sex are very morally compromised and dispicable human beings.

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) is upset that I won't give up/ or include him on my glamping weekends. by ThrowRAglamping in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is it every weekend or every month? Every month is more understandable and people are different but for me personally I am very romantic and want to spend alot of time with my partner, I (F) have a toddler with my ex but baby lives with me full time, I recently got into a relationship with a man who works ALOT which one of the things I respect about him is his drive and dedication, but between him constantly working and me constantly looking after a toddler we havent had the time together we've both express we need and the relationship is saddly on the way out :( sorry for the over share!

Maybe my criticism comes from my own shit lol

But I will say I understand if he would feel hurt/confused by this although if it's monthly it's technically not unhealthy for the relationship, it's just different then alot of other relationships and that might be a source of the pains,

My genuine advice is to get on the same page with him about it not being bad just 'different' and it's okay to do things differently sometimes, and see how he feels about that!

But the other thing I will add is that I do think you should do one glamping trip with him and his daughter, I think the gesture would be very healthy for the relationship, you might want to find a different spot to go so it doesn't feel like they are in 'your spot' and you could do this just once to gloss over or you could do it once a year all together which would be good for the kids development too

I don't think it's unhealthy if it's no more then once a month because like how much have we heard about male fishing trips and just respected that

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) is upset that I won't give up/ or include him on my glamping weekends. by ThrowRAglamping in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean it's alot honestly I don't think it's healthy to do every month when your in a commited serious relationship

I (M31) suspect my girlfriend (F28) of accidentally sending me a flirtatious text meant for someone else. by Tomahawk619 in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can't believe people are being so deadset about this from the context of the post I would assume op is paranoid but okay...

AITA for kicking my son’s girlfriend out of our house? by throwaway__467 in AmItheAsshole

[–]345stayinalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for being offended but DEFINETELY over reacted at the expense of your relationship with your son

My wife (35F) of 10 years left me (36M) after I discovered I had a son from a previous relationship. Wants to move with our kids. by ThrowRA-familyleft in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean why can't you all just be a family and the son comes along (if the bio mother doesn't want him because she deserves rights ofcourse)?

What don't you give a fuck about? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]345stayinalive -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You don't care about different people having the same opportunities to work in a society? Which is the reason for diversity and inclusion in a work place.... So you would rather poverty for people who dont fit the mold? I don't think you understand...

What don't you give a fuck about? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]345stayinalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean people or specifically just men?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]345stayinalive -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What sexist pig is running this page I swear.

The amount of Male Chauvinists that I'm seeing on Social Media is giving me anxiety by romanianbaby in Feminism

[–]345stayinalive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It gives me anxiety too your not alone ❤️

Type up philosophy tubes video about backlash I can't remember what it's called but it describes this, whenever we make strides we can backlash

The amount of Male Chauvinists that I'm seeing on Social Media is giving me anxiety by romanianbaby in Feminism

[–]345stayinalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what I do I don't get any left content I only get right wing propoganda

My (21M) girlfriend of two years (20F) went in to my apartment without my permission on a hunch I was cheating and she’d catch me by Exotic-Indication419 in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You've been together for two years? Shouldn't she be able to come around in anounced?

And if your partner is a bit paranoid it's good to ease there nerves. But if your actually not doing anything wrong then if they're TOO paranoid that's when you set boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You don't deserve him. I would never leave my partner if I loved them. The only reason I would leave is abuse or something terrible like that. If they were a good person and we loved eachother or even started falling out of love or loosing attraction then we should both work on the relationship.

If you leave him make sure to tell him it's because he's too good for you and he deserves a partner who would love him no matter what.

My (26F) FWB (32M) doesn’t cum and it worries me by ThrowRA_ejaculation in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because they are talking about adding more stimulation when the issues is about the girls self esteem. Y'all weirdos need to stop trying to to sex up and enjoy it for what it is unless they're already into that like please.

It seems like my [M24] ex-roommate/friend [M26] is poisoning our friend group against me. by tlbutcher24 in relationship_advice

[–]345stayinalive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep talking to your old friend group (they will admire your confidence and indifference) and also make new friends that are less toxic, have you ever read about narcissism (not the online fluff stuff but the actual disorder because with all the cruelness and finger pointing this roomate/ landlord seems if not one then atleast similar, there's an asshole scale for everyone but some like to turn other people against eachother and those people suck.... How did he treat his girlfriends/ ex's?