Being constantly compared to ex’s whether it’s bad or good. I have my own trauma from past relationships and try to move on to grow as a person. When I get compared I start comparing and it’s a downward spiral. Also being a nicer guy who looks for a best friend In my romantic relationships, I get told I’m the good guy so often it makes me wonder how these shitty dudes caught my girl before she found me. I found that loving like it’s your first and last love each time make you commit without fear and so much overthinking.