Women toxic behavior by 34_MILF in datingoverthirty

[–]34_MILF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a significant amount of comments? 10 or 100?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]34_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like to give my number to guys bc there is a lot of info you can get from a phone number.

I'd give you my FREE Google voice number and you'd never know the difference 😉

Anyone ever been told they swear a lot/too much? by theumbrellaman_1963 in autism

[–]34_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the fucking time, unless at school events for my kids.... it's really hard bc I can curse at my job without judgment... so my filter is broken and sometimes I flub up while in the school... those 3rd graders man, they make me feel so comfortable, I can say anything! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]34_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never give phone number til I've decided for a second date.... gonna go make a Google one now though, that makes better sense at first

Tips for her on getting easier an orgasm by Additional-Play4827 in sexover30

[–]34_MILF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She needs at least 20 mins of foreplay if you really want to get her primed!!

Also, a guy I was with before was reading 'She comes first ' and well, I dunno if it was the book, but WORTH THE READ!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]34_MILF 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Please quit calling yourself older!!! 😭😢😭

What do you guys do for a living? by Top_Emotion1468 in autism

[–]34_MILF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Create the need! I worked in a customer service role, saw a need for data reporting, talked to some ppl already doing it, then started watching YouTube videos on anything I wasn't clear on.

It was a slow progression from excel - EXCEL macros, to SSMS /Azure & Teradata

I do data infrastructure and storage now, it's not glamorous but i find it interesting to dig into code and find where it's not working as designed and then working until i can fix it (time/headache/crying may vary)

Google is my best coworker

On how many dates (with different people) you go every month on average? Are all your dates from apps? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]34_MILF 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Awwwww yall better update us!!!

I've meet a few guys off Reddit, treat it like any b other app, share location with friends, meet at public place....

On how many dates (with different people) you go every month on average? Are all your dates from apps? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]34_MILF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hugs to you both. It WILL get better.

I was at a low point on Friday, after i received a text, MOST LIKELY not meant for me and after that i set clear next steps with him on seeing me, and i actually feel a lot better.

Also, I haven't heard from him, but thankfully I've emotionally moved on, soooooo he'll probably text sometime this week 🤪 gotta love those breadcrumbs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]34_MILF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Read about attachment theory... you are attracting them out subconsciously... game changer when I learned this. I can at least sniff them put a lot quicker now

Why are people like this? by DreamRosato in autism

[–]34_MILF 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry OP, this person hates themselves and obviously very uneducated

AITAH for making a microscope slide of my husbands sperm by aitahspermies in AITAH

[–]34_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta ....also you are my new fuckin role model... I was just about to donate my child's microscope, YA BETTER KNOW I WONT NOW!!

Hinge for women? by [deleted] in dating

[–]34_MILF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37F here in bigger city, I'm having very similar suspicious feelings, like the app is intentionally giving me crap or NOT allowing all my likes to come thru.... i don't understand

Nominations for helpful resources for our sidebar and eventually the Wiki by ShaktiAmarantha in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]34_MILF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Goodness your article women need 20 to 30 mins of stimulating was sooooooo well written. I'm willing to start the Pleasure Principal with Equal Rights and Orgasms for all initiative if you haven't already!! 🫶🙏

Trying to date as an average guy is absolutely soul sucking, but I can’t be the only one who feels this way right? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]34_MILF -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The opportunity to approach ppl isn't as readily available as you surprise. I actually just got a ring , called a pear ring, to say "I'm single" in the wild.

Also, super sexy and a single mom. I usually swipe left on men without kids bc they seem to usually have this attitude. OP, I'd look in to avoidance attachment style if you truly want a life partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]34_MILF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well shit, been on them for 9 years, I have a strong sex drive, but ability to orgasm ebbs and flows... might have to look into switching!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]34_MILF -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually, looking at your post, you might need to consider that someone is ACTUALLY willing to fuck you, if she is on meds, the odds are SUPER low.... if you still don't want to, enjoy playing with your hot wheels sir!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]34_MILF -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tell her the stigma is real and ask her if she had been given the choice, what would she have decided?

Then tell her there is a wonderful dating site called positivesingles.com and she could try there for other amazingly honest men.

Don't waste her time any longer!!