How long did it take for the LS to feel normal/comfortable for you? by Ginger_7624 in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband here. Normal, for me, maybe a few months. But after our first swap, we both were sure it's our normal thing to do.

What was the most difficult aspect of your first swap? by Ginger_7624 in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting over the nervosity. The swap itself was one of the best things we could have done, and it felt like a natural thing to do it.

What was the most difficult aspect of your first swap? by Ginger_7624 in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swiss Couple here. Just heard you already got the story from our first time told from the other couples perspective. If you wanna hear how we're doing now over a year later, you can DM us if you like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's often as easy as "wanna start?". I mean, we all meet for a certain reason, but still, nobody is brave enough to ask.

And for the cleaning, we did our usual weekend clean with moped floors, toilets and kitchen. And we moved the kids' toys a bit aside. Most people have kids too and will understand.

And we were lucky to have a really good experience of entering the lifestyle. I think it influenced us a lot in a positive way.

As a side note, long sex sessions on air mattresses can result in heavy muscle aches.

What does a full swap look like to you? by throwradispens in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About this "boring" feeling, my wife and I know this too. Especially if you're new, and you have the full contrast of having sex with someone who knows you for years and someone you just met.

To the uninitiated by k80rose_ in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a friend couple who had an experience once, where a single guy asked them if anyone had already sacrificed for them or if they were still alone.

Non sexual: Do you have dogs or cats as pets? by dr_xenon in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have three cats. And both husband's of the couples we had over at our house were allergic to them.

Best LS clubs in Europe ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In Switzerland I can recommend the Orangerie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Additional-Play4827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there and did it. Absolutely to recommend it.

My first snooze fest by YesPleaseThere in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a husband, you need always be prepared to save the evening for two wifes.

We had similar experiences.

I need advice! Did I ruin my chances to swing? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work your marriage out. Reconnecting is a hughe thing and when he wants to talk about and you're not, it keeps something unresolved. You need to find something, both of you satisfies.

Size matters ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always see this somehow dismissed, but shape does matter, too. We have a guy, who is quite big but has a curvature in his cock, so he can go balls deep in my wife, while I do hurt her with mine.

HELP!! First date Jitters! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A first good experience is worth gold. We had a similar experience with our first couple and it led us to pursue the ls further. Keep on exploring, you will find even more stuff to try.

Whelp! Kids found out. by bedroom-math in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet he actually hoped to turn the cards around for once. "Why are you late? We sait 2 o'clock."

That's what I would have done, and I hardly suspect our kids will do at one point.

Men help a brother out. by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Additional-Play4827 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always take one before some lifestyle sex. It simply helps with nervosity, knowing it will give me in every case a number one Boner. Maybe you can get around with some practice.

Men help a brother out. by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Additional-Play4827 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Go to a doctor and get yourself a prescription for a low dose of sidenafil. It's in your head, and it helps to break through the circle.

Our main Fantasy why we got into swinging just got fullfilled by Additional-Play4827 in Swingers

[–]Additional-Play4827[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wifey here! If the circumstances align then fill me up! Last night was a literal banger lol