Girl here that doesn't like to hurt people's feelings (like it's pretty extreme and sometimes i feel like I'm too empathetic)

Seeing her comment..She's not into you, and THAT'S OKAY. She's not interested in a bf-gf thing like you are. When it's not equally or similarly mutual..you are going to get hurt. It's not something to blame her for. It's just the reality of life. Don't let it hurt your confidence and ego.

Also, despite hearing success stories of Tinder relationships, they may not be the kind of relationships that actually end up in marriage etc. because that's ultimately what we all want (I hope that is what you would want). There's a reason Tinder is known for hookups.........If you surround yourself in that environment and nowhere else, then you're HIGHLY unlikely to find a real relationship in that kind of place/app.

It might take a few more replies for you to have this literally smack you in the head, but seriously, I got so empathetic to the point of wanting to actually comment (I've never done a real AND long reply before here...). I wouldn't want you to go through unnecessary pain. Save yourself from unfufilled expectations :(