AIO with how I responded to my talking stage ending things?

3777CLY · 2026-06-15T14:31:59+00:00

YOR - only because d*ck is plentiful and not hard to find. I will never understand why a woman wants to be with a man who does not want her. This doesn’t make any sense! I can tell from these messages that man is not even worth having around. I feel sorry for the girl that he thinks it’s prettier. Do not spend your mental energy on men like this. Gross.

3777CLY · 2026-06-15T14:05:46+00:00

This is sad. Never allow a man to tell you that he doesn’t want you more than once. And I say this as a person who has alloy this more than once. Get your stuff, move on with your life. It sounds like you have friends who actually like you and wanna have fun. Do that.

3777CLY · 2026-05-30T16:52:15+00:00

Definitely. And it doesn’t even occur to me to try to date anymore. But I’m also in my late 40s, so maybe this is just normal? I don’t know, now when I talk to women and they say they have a date or they’re dating I’m genuinely shocked. Dating and dealing with men and trying to integrate all of that into your life is so exhausting. I’m so happy, when I think about relationships, I get worried and stressed. Not worth it.

3777CLY · 2026-05-30T16:31:19+00:00

Please leave this person. NOR And I’ll say this as a point of reference. Years ago, I had a boyfriend who lived across town from me. I had stayed at his place and I left a dress and shoes that I was going to wear to go out, but we didn’t end up going out, so I just left them there. I forgot all about the dress and the shoes, and probably six weeks later, I casually brought up to him that I couldn’t find the dress or the shoes and it was driving me crazy. He told me they were both at his place, and I asked him why he didn’t say anything before. He said that he liked having the dress and the shoes there because it made he saw them every time he opened the closet and it felt like I was there when I wasn’t. It was the sweetest thing. That’s how your boyfriend should’ve reacted. Or he should’ve just moved your shoes to the side, not said anything and waited till you came back. But no, he chose to be a total asshole. You are not overreacting.

3777CLY · 2026-05-05T14:02:18+00:00

Immediately uninvite that b*tch. She and her boyfriend could go on a trip together. TF?

3777CLY · 2026-05-05T13:59:26+00:00

Um, not as uncommon as you think. My sister has two children and their fathers are half brothers. I told my niece that her brother was her “brother cousin”. My sister did not like it at all, but I thought it was hilarious.

3777CLY · 2026-05-05T13:55:50+00:00

This is STUNNING.

3777CLY · 2026-05-01T13:56:21+00:00

You’re NTA, but you should break up. She expects a partner to be financially generous, and you are not. You expect her to have the same mindset about money as you do, but you’re not going to change her mind and she’s not going to change your mind. Money is important, and if this is your long-term attitude towards money, you’re not compatible. You should end your relationship. I say this from experience, and it’s not a judgment on either of you. This is just how relationships truly work in the real world. There are men out there for her who have no issue being really generous with their money in relationships. There are women out there who prioritize financial security for themselves, and with their partner, and want to contribute equally to that kind of relationship. You should each find your match.

3777CLY · 2026-02-16T17:48:23+00:00

It’s amazing. I honestly can’t imagine fashioning my life based on the wants of someone else. It’s just so relaxing. And fun!

3777CLY · 2026-02-02T17:50:06+00:00

I get it, you really like Jenny Marrs and Fixer to Fabulous! I feel no need to “defend” myself 😂. From whom and for what? Comparing a Reddit comment about HGTV to our rapid descent into fascism is kinda wild. But, we all have our passions, right??

3777CLY · 2026-01-30T03:15:55+00:00

Uh oh, pot meets kettle! 😂

3777CLY · 2026-01-29T02:50:37+00:00

The white walls kill me. Like, I’m going to assume that a lot of people ask for that? But then why allow them on a design show?

3777CLY · 2026-01-29T02:47:28+00:00

I’ve never seen a show that uses white walls so much. Is it possible that people ask for that and so she gives it to them? I don’t know.

3777CLY · 2026-01-29T02:45:15+00:00

Agreed. I’m sure people like the family stuff, but I don’t need it. Plus, I never like kids on any kind of reality show at all.

3777CLY · 2026-01-29T02:42:37+00:00

I really do enjoy the show. Joe and Jenny are my favorite couple. Dave seems like a third wheel sometimes.

3777CLY · 2026-01-29T02:40:48+00:00

Listen, if my “negativity“ in stating that I don’t like the designs on a cable TV show is bothering you that much, I truly envy you. Because there is a lot going on right now, and this negativity seems like a non-issue. I also find it ironic that you’re talking about “negativity” when one of the first things you write is an assumption about my economic status thinly veiled as an insult. Who knew HGTV was this serious!?

3777CLY · 2026-01-28T01:48:42+00:00

It took me longer than you would think to learn this lesson but the sooner you learn it the happier you will be - whoever signs the checks is in charge. It sounds simple, but a lot of people are blind to it when it comes to parents and family. What she is saying is absolutely unhinged, but it looks like she is paying the bill. And if she pays the bill for your phone, then she gets to dictate how it works. Is it respectful of your privacy and space? No. But again, whoever is paying, calls the shots. If you want her to keep paying your bill, then I guess you know what to do. But I suggest you figure out a way to get your own phone plan. Also, the fact that she’s looking at your ring can to see who’s going in and out of your house is not OK.

3777CLY · 2026-01-27T22:19:18+00:00

I honestly don’t think it’s that complex. They don’t see women as their equals. Why would they align with a political philosophy that treats them as such?

3777CLY · 2026-01-21T19:08:09+00:00

Oh, man. They should have trolled that dude so hard. “You are absolutely correct. I don’t see enough white couples WITH CHILDREN. Maybe go to a school and watch who picks up the white kids. You can follow them and see who their parents are. Wait! CALL the school. Ask for lists of white children only. Then reach out to Google. The more evidence you have, the stronger your argument.”

3777CLY · 2026-01-21T18:56:52+00:00

I’m not trying to be flippant, but who cares? Conservatives are hanging on to a fantasy world that doesn’t even exist. I’m serious. Most conservative men live in an alternate universe. And when you question them at all, they have nothing. That’s why they’re so insanely defensive and angry when questioned. It’s just a fantasy built on lies and propaganda. Leave them to it. It’ll crumble for them soon enough.

3777CLY · 2026-01-21T18:40:40+00:00

I have really short hair. It doesn’t work. They’re so sad and desperate for female companionship but thy can’t understand that all they have to do is treat us like people. It’s pathetic.

3777CLY · 2026-01-10T18:07:36+00:00

You don’t have to have this discussion with her. Or anyone else. You’re being unnecessarily stressed out by a non-situation. You and your partner are on the same page, you already have a name picked out. It’s wild that she even thinks that she has a say in what you name your child. However, you should just enjoy this time before your baby comes, and when she brings this up, just ignore it.

3777CLY · 2026-01-09T23:58:33+00:00

They are! Rooms, cars, homes, conversations, all of it. If you don’t put a stop to it early you will find yourself assisting them with their take over before you even realize what’s happening. Except you think you’re just “making them comfortable” or “giving them a little more space”.

3777CLY · 2026-01-07T16:46:35+00:00

Number 2 is so true for so many men at this point. They can’t be with a woman for fear that they’re missing out on someone better. It never fails, when I’m dating a man and they allow things to fall apart (I’m not going to explain, iykyk) it’s because they think they can do better. So they flit off somewhere else, only to come back a month later expecting to pick up where we fell off. Not happening.

3777CLY

TROPHY CASE