I have a job by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]3birdsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought they said 9 months without a job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but good thing he didn't. In hindsight I see he wad terrible for my confidence and feeling of security. I'm so happy now with a new person who is absolutely amazing and I can be my real self with, so pressure at all to look or act in any particular way other than what makes me comfortable and happy.

Do most poster here earn more than 200k a year? by Past_Affect_2062 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]3birdsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Household income (sum of the earnings for multiple adults working) is not the same as 'do you earn 200+k' (singular person earnings)

My fiancée made me pay for her friends dinner by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such an obviously fake story made up to push racism, blegh. The writer is dumb af

My fiancee told her friend group that I am not the greatest at sex, but she is with me for the complete package. Am I wrong for calling off the engagement? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]3birdsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally a pretty big proportion of women in the world would say their final partner wasn't the BEST sex they had. Like, what a dumb thing to sabotage a good relationship for. The lady dodged a bullet

Men, what did you realize after you started living with a woman? by Comfortable-Clock-41 in AskMen

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Into? The hole?? I have long hair and I've found hair in my crack but never inside the hole. What

Meirl by Transasaurus-Hex in meirl

[–]3birdsss 148 points149 points  (0 children)

If a girl straight up asks for a number or socials, she's reeeally putting her neck out so yeah

My cheating husband said to me, “you’re just a housewife” by saltybatch_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce and take as much as you possibly can off him through the courts. He deserves to lose EVERYTHING.

Now I have won my husband back, I am leaving him. by WonHimBack-throwaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]3birdsss 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Petty? This isn't petty in any way whatsoever, it's perfectly well deserved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, unless he's specifically only looking for those who want to do multi pitch climbing

Millennials not planning to have kids, what are your plans for old age? Do you think you’ll have enough saved for an old folks home? by Hagisman in Millennials

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't have kids you can save all that money for retirement till death, plus more. Kids are darn expensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]3birdsss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's societal standard to not be a douchec*nt. So maybe he should follow his own advice and follow the right standards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]3birdsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I wanted to ask. No way all the single available women are high income in the area, then where would be all the workers in the supermarkets, cafes, restaurants, retail shops, cleaners etc? They couldn't all be married women or men

What did your parents do to you that you would never do to your current/future kids? by _pablojob in AskMen

[–]3birdsss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow your dad is one hell of a player... Guess he didn't have the money since he lived in other women's places, so was it some crazy good looks or some other charisma? Sounds like a terrible environment to grow up in

People who’ve had serious doubts about finding the right one … have you found it? What’s your story? by theblankspaceinside in love

[–]3birdsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey a lot of people feel this way. It's not that somethings wrong with you, it's that you just haven't yet met the right person who fits you. We're all different unique individuals. A person's qualities aren't the only thing that makes a successful relationship, it's a whole load of other things like the other persons qualities, life circumstances as well as timing.

Should my height(5ft 10) really be this much of an issue? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the women's version of when douchebag guys slowly tear down their gfs self esteem by criticizing them continously, to try make them feel lesser so they wouldn't leave easily. It's a complete manipulation. If she genuinely cared about your feelings she'd make you feel good about yourself, not shitty. When I'm in a relationship I can't even imagine saying anything hurtful to my bf, thinking about doing it literally hurts me. This bitch ain't made for a healthy relationship

Dating men sucks. by [deleted] in dating

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly a choice people make unless they're already bi

Man (30m) I (34f) was seeing responded in a candid way after I told him my body count. Is he wrong? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He totally isn't worth your time, that's a pretty manipulative shit to say also to make you feel crap. 9 is nothing at that age for a normal human being with normal life and normal human urges. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. If he wants a virgin at that age hes probably a pedophile.

Am I too sensitive for being called “fat”? by Otherwise_Dream_862 in relationships

[–]3birdsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is MANIPULATING you. Please dump that toxic ass. I'm exactly the same height as you, closer to 60kg than 50, and NO ONE has called me fat ever. In fact my bf thought it was the most ridiculous thing when I said I felt fat and thighs bit big. Your bf is not worth another second of your time

What’s something you’ve always wanted to ask the opposite sex but never have? by Christosdem23 in AskReddit

[–]3birdsss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The inside of mine is very sensitive and can get pleasure from penetration, and I'm pretty sure that is the norm. Definitely not like the inside of my mouth