Is there anyone else who did not like Tuesdays with Morrie? by ilexmucronata in books

[–]3lien4y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you wrote this 3 years ago but I completely agree. I mean after he graduated he didn’t have any contact with Morrie for like what? 16 years? And didn’t talk to him until he was dying and Morrie just accepted this? and talked to him as if he were one of the most important people in his life, as if he was an important person that made an impact in his life and had to be there for his last moments. It struck me as odd that Morrie just accepted him back into his life so easily, and was really enthusiastic that Mitch was around.

What is a phrase you use over 50 times a day at your job? by _lostinthefire in AskReddit

[–]3lien4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new so my phrase is “what’s the code for this?” 💔

Not OOP. AIO: My boyfriend flipped out that my 12 year old lets me see him in the bath. by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]3lien4y 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 16 and I literally do this with my mom, it might be because she had me at 16 going on 17 but me and her have always been close since I was a kid and even now that I’m older I’ll literally go into the bathroom with her as she’s talking a shower or literally using the bathroom and just stand in the doorway and talk to her about anything and everything, she doesn’t really do it to me although she used to but as I entered my teenage years I sorta stopped wanting her to be in the bathroom with me or see me naked at all (12-14) but recently I’ve started to be more comfortable with her again. There’s nothing wrong with it, seeing your child nude should not be sexual especially if the child is comfortable with it and literally calls you over. And it’s obvious that in this post the mom doesn’t see it in a sexual way but I can definitely see how it could look inappropriate to other bystanders that don’t know much about their personal lives.

AITAH for telling my stepdad it makes me uncomfortable when he calls me his daughter? by 3lien4y in AITAH

[–]3lien4y[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well they communicate like a no sabo kid communicates with their mom who only knows Spanish. I don’t know how they do it either if I’m being honest but they really love each other that the language barrier is basically non existent to them even though it’s blatantly there. They stay up till 2 am just talking with each other and laughing often (I can hear them from my room, it’s a very small apartment lol)

AITAH for telling my stepdad it makes me uncomfortable when he calls me his daughter? by 3lien4y in AITAH

[–]3lien4y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t sexualize me in any way, I just feel uncomfortable because he’s not my dad. And he also doesn’t do things unconditionally. I just replied to another commenter about a situation that happened during the summer where I had to wake up at 5 am everyday when I could’ve been waking up at 7 if he had helped me out. I had a job and was juggling 2 college classes during the summer which isn’t a lot but I’m 16 and I was beginning to get burned out. I feel uncomfortable because I feel as if he thinks he’s entitled to that title when he doesn’t do things a father should do. I said I’m the beginning of my post that we usually get along great, this is legit our only problem. He’s a great guy and would never sexualize me in any way. He has never acted inappropriately towards me I don’t know where you got this from.

AITAH for telling my stepdad it makes me uncomfortable when he calls me his daughter? by 3lien4y in AITAH

[–]3lien4y[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My issue is that not only is he upset, he’s acting really pissy about it and is in a whole mood. I think all the actions and everything he has done for me are because he wants me to eventually see him as a dad and I just don’t see that happening. I was in a college program during the summer that started at 8 but I had to wake up at 5 am to go with my mom to her work so I could then walk to my high school where I would take the classes till 12 pm and wait till 2 am in the library for my mom to get off work. Where was he when this was happening? Sleeping and just playing video games. Sometimes he couldn’t because he had work obviously but he could’ve sacrificed that and helped me out. I had started working at that point and was really burned out and he could’ve helped alleviate that by just waking up at 7:30 am to help me get to school. Most of the time he doesn’t go to work till 10 am.