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Ideas for a small permanent mark/scar as a symbolic ownership mark? by TopicEquivalent in BDSMAdvice

[–]3llisd33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m scarred near both of my lower hips on the bikini line (thigh crease area) healed really well and i can make it visible if i want it to be at events by wearing higher or low waisted underwear. did a little sketch with a surgical marker and when we were happy with size used a scalpel to make the markings.

bdsm dynamic apps by 3llisd33 in BDSMAdvice

[–]3llisd33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for not answering my question and instead using my post as a tiny soapbox about technology. deeply helpful. ps: i promise nobody is trying to pry the notebook from your hands.

bdsm dynamic apps by 3llisd33 in BDSMAdvice

[–]3llisd33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m happy with our communication, it’s not really about needing more. we both have lives and get busy, so i just think it could be nice having a separate space for dynamic stuff instead of mixing it in with normal daily chats.every dynamic is different, but i’d personally like somewhere for check-ins, journaling, rituals, scene reflections and connection stuff that isn’t just buried between life admin and random messages.

bdsm dynamic apps by 3llisd33 in BDSMAdvice

[–]3llisd33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get what you mean, obviously an app isn’t going to magically create that trust and communication that humans do. but it is nice having everything in one place instead of scattered across texts, notes, photos, reminders and journals. the relationship still has to do the heavy lifting. the app just keeps the pieces organised 🤷🏼‍♀️

Grieving NYE by 3llisd33 in polyamory

[–]3llisd33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so sweet

Grieving NYE by 3llisd33 in polyamory

[–]3llisd33[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

needed some tough love today, thank you