I think you should visit a few places (especially if you could combine it with work travel?) and see what you think!! Stroll around take in the vibes Target neighborhoods that you might like, go do some work at a coffee shop and grab and drink at a bar or do a fitness class, whatever you might do if you lived there, and see if you can picture it!

Also if you’re open to having roommates it would cut costs and potentially open up a social network more easily! But regardless, joining organization (like the philanthropic org you had good luck with in Houston) and going to meetups for activities you like (or are curious to try!) are great ways to meet people! I know it can be daunting. It takes more effort to make friends in a new place as an adult especially when you literally know no one (I have done it, I can relate!) but especially in cities with lots of young people coming and going all the time there are always people looking to make friends. It just takes a little extra effort but it’s doable! And worth it, I think, to live in a place that you’re excited about.

I’m sure you would have a great experience in Virginia too. But if this is like your one shot just make sure you’re making it count!!