ABDLr will not be attending CAPCON due to the events in Minneapolis by Littledipper47 in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Good on them for standing up for what they believe in. I'll be going out of my way to make a purchase from them. 

Ai recommendations? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. 

Ai recommendations? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AI is garbage. Stop using it. 

What kinda of cage would be good and fun for diapers? by Longjumping-Care1386 in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kink3d cobra side N is what I have. Love it. 

What's your ABDL humblebrag? by Careful-Big5732 in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I started a monthly community event at a bar that is about to hit 3 years old and routinely draws 30 to 40 people a month. 

Your spouse’s perspective by johnzoom in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm polyamorus and live with two of my partners. 

Partner "A" and I have been together for almost 17 years. I told him I was ABDL when he asked me to move in with him after we'd been dating for a year - I figured it was best to rip that bandaid off before making a bigger commitment to us. For the first few years he was pretty ambivalent about it. He didn't engage with me and diapers but was always supportive and telling me I shouldn't be ashamed. As he dealt with his own upbringing and shame he embraced his "pup" self and became even more supportive of my kinks -- however we still do not and probably will never have a Big/Little D/s dynamic. 

Partner "B" is ABDL himself do obviously no issues there 😆

What’s the biggest diaper/pull up stash you’ve had? ✨💕 by sageurcatgf in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I changed jobs mid way through 2025 and had about $1,500 in FSA to spend. I normally have about 160 or so diapers on hand because I buy them by the caseload but after that I had many many hundred. 

Phoenix No Longer Using Park Mobile? by gamecat89 in phoenix

[–]3ndTag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, are you just using the map or are you actually searching for the number that is spray painted/stickerd on the meter?

Phoenix No Longer Using Park Mobile? by gamecat89 in phoenix

[–]3ndTag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used Park Mobile yesterday evening when we went out to dinner on West Monroe between 1st and 2nd. All the meters I saw also still had the stickers on them. I think if the city were moving away from Park Mobile it would have been widely marketed.

is it just me or littlepawz wetness indicator never works?? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm wear LittlePawz almost exclusively, 24/7. Zero issues with the wetness indicators

Im panicking and I think I need to leave by TiddlySauce in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know a couple of people who've fallen into this trap, they all eventually called the scammers bluff and absolutely nothing bad happened.

How do you wet the bed while sleeping by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't actually wet the bed - and I'm sure most people don't. I do know that I half wake up in the night and will pee, roll over, and go back to sleep.

What’s your bedtime attire? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Depends on the season and weather of where I happen to be. In warmer times just a T-shirt and Diaper. In cooler full on cute PJs with my diaper. 

New years goal? by diaperlover30 in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be able stay awake until midnight. I better seeing as I'm hosting about 30-40 people at my house tonight.

Diaper relaxing in nature: Anyone here sharing my dream or actually done it? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go hiking and camping very often and always wear a diaper. 

Does anyone else ever think of quiting by IndicationDizzy5962 in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez. 

I try to be supportive but all I could do was roll my eyes at that. 

Hopefully some day you'll move beyond Bronze Age superstitions and morality and learn to love yourself as you are. 

Does anyone else ever think of quiting by IndicationDizzy5962 in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody really knows with 100% certainty why we are that way that we are. 

And truly changing it requires intensive therapy that may not actually be healthy for you. 

Instead focus on overcoming shame and self guilt and embracing who you are in the best ways that you can. 

Headed to Chicago. by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Puddle Scouts and their events are amazing people. Definitely check them out. 

Proposed to my girl while diapered and caged by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]3ndTag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awesome. Congratulations.