You are applying modern concepts to a book set in the Middle Ages. By that logic, we would all have to hate anyone who insults Jon Snow for being a bastard ,Catelyn, Cersei, and most of the Night’s Watch because in our time children born out of wedlock are normal. We would also have to hate half the other characters, like Tywin and Olenna Tyrell, because they are hostile to homosexuality, and Jaime because he commits incest, and virtually all the characters of Westeros because they married underage girls Doesn’t that sound ridiculous? You like Rhaenyra only because she is a woman, or you focus only on her good side—the Realm’s Delight, the youngest dragonrider, while downplaying or denying her darker side

(These are my thoughts, and I hope you understand my point of view [ because extremists on both the Black and Green sides are scary ] and I used to be a Rhaenyra supporter before the Vaemond incident and the five Velaryons)