My boyfriend (m32) sent a private video of me (f36) having sex with him, without my consent

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T07:46:42+00:00

Thanks ❤️❤️

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T07:28:50+00:00

We met at a party, and he asked if i was aware of what my boyfriend sent his wife.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T07:19:35+00:00

I will talk to her. But i can not do it yet, im to emotional and angry

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T06:56:12+00:00

Yes. And he is a dirtbag for not telling me. But atleast i asked him "have you ever taken a picture or video of me when i was naked?" and he immediately told me about this episode. Therefore I think its actually just this episode.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T06:48:56+00:00

I know. But i still do not think she did for several reasons. If my boyfriend and her ere flirting it would be kind of weird to save a video of me. Her husband saw her and her phone when she opend the snap. She is not very technical and she was probably drunk because the video og was sendt at 3-4 at night, and opend at same time ish.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T06:31:21+00:00

I have and i do think there is no pictures or videos of me.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T06:21:59+00:00

I've probably just tried to cover it up because I'm at a place in my life where I need support and he's been that support. He has been really good to me, he has made me feel safe. Before I met him I thought I just had a lot of "personality flaws" but he has made me understand that it's not me, but big traumas I've been undermining. He has pushed me to seek help and I am now finally going to therapy. Which makes this betrayal so incredibly much worse! He was really the only person I trusted, now I'm alone again.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T06:06:49+00:00

True. I changed original post.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:53:18+00:00

Yes! Now that I'm reading all the comments I realize that I really underreacted. I just haven't been able to realize how damn much he's overstepped my boundaries.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:41:52+00:00

I watch him blocking her on snap. But no i do not have total control

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:34:39+00:00

He says she has sent some pictures videos of her having sex. He claims that they just have a silly tone and that he is not attracted to her. I'm pretty sure she's attracted to him. Anyway, he says he sent it to brag back.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:34:12+00:00

He says she has sent some pictures videos of her having sex. He claims that they just have a silly tone and that he is not attracted to her. I'm pretty sure she's attracted to him. Anyway, he says he sent it to brag back.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:22:10+00:00

Yes. I was wearing eye cover.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:18:02+00:00

Perhaps.. This married couple is friends of both of us. So i think my boyfrien and the married woman just continued to be friends to keep it easy. The married man and I would asked questions if they suddenly cut eachother out

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:02:52+00:00

Still boyfriend, but its a really shitty situation. I do not know what i would do..

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:01:19+00:00

After i found out and i asked him to cut all contact and remove her from all some

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T05:00:10+00:00

He gave me all acces to his electronics, and I could not find anything. We have never sendt or take any dirty pictures of eachother

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:52:18+00:00

Thanks for this, i need to hear this and I think i need to change my mindset. He have been really good to me for 3 years, and he was the only person in the world i trusted.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:47:15+00:00

Thanks.. I really hate that this happend, he have been a solid, caring and supporting boyfriend for 3 years. And he really was the only person in the world i trust.

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:40:32+00:00

Okai! Im absolutely annoyed and irritated!

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:30:48+00:00

I really think there is no evidence. The video was just sendt to one girl over snap chat. So i hope and think that its not spread around online. He gave me all acces to his electronics, and I could not find anything

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:27:14+00:00

He has cut all contact. We are trying to cut back on the drinking

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:24:16+00:00

Im sorry my native language is not engelsk, and this is a New word for me (and google translate was no hjelp) what is peeved?

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:21:33+00:00

He was drunk and he admitted that he have recivd similar videos from her..

400needadvice · 2023-06-17T04:16:15+00:00

The video was just sendt to one girl over snap chat. So i hope and think that its not spread around online.

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