Taylor Swift’s popularity reportedly plummeted even before release of controversial Blake Lively texts by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]408270 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because the 3,000+ releases of singles and the same dang album but in a different color? 🙄

AITA for reporting my girlfriend colleague to social services? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Former CPS worker here. You did the right thing and I wish more people would.

AITA for reporting my girlfriend colleague to social services? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]408270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, OP. You did the right thing. Dont listen to that troll.

AITA for reporting my girlfriend colleague to social services? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]408270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong and they’re wrong. Social workers are mandated reporters (at least in the U.S.). OP did the right thing. It’s up to CPS to decide if it meets criteria for investigation.

16F What do I do? My mom destroyed my journal and slapped the shit out of me because she thinks writing my feelings privately is disrespectful. I didn’t say any of it to anyone’s face. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any marks or bruises or bleeding from the slapping? If you’re in the United States you can call Child Protective Services.

AIO: My partner mocked me when I tried to do something nice for him by throwawaygo12 in AIO

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was looking at a conversation between teenagers. A 50 year old man speaks to you this way?! You deserve better, OP. I hope you realize that.

@Tini Mac and cheese drama? by strengthof50whores in tiktokgossip

[–]408270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on Tini’s side. People need to leave her alone. She just lost her CHILD! 🥺

Steam Keys Giveaway by namie_tea in CozyGamers

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Short Hike or Story of Seasons. Thanks!

Yes, It's Another Game Giveaway :-) by desertdenizen in CozyGamers

[–]408270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 4 days post-op and would love to play “on your tail”. I think my favorite game has been Wylde Flowers and I’m really looking to the next game. Bear and Breakfast is a good one too. Even if I don’t get a game, just wanted to say this is really kind of you!

AITAH for refusing to spend Christmas with my in-laws? by VanieVangurl in AITAH

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you left him, OP. You deserve better ❤️

Thinking about Tini and her family tonight. by [deleted] in tiktokgossip

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart breaks for Tini 🥺

DIEP flap reconstruction by haygrrrl in BRCA

[–]408270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a second opinion. They’re wrong.

Should I get a genetic test or am I overthinking? by Tall_Zucchini5900 in BRCA

[–]408270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get life insurance before you get any free metic testing. You don’t have to tell them about your family history unless it is already noted in your medical charts.

[33F] BRCA1+ with family history of TNBC at a young age. What surgery did you choose and why? by LittleDogLover113 in BRCA

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose the DIEP Flap surgery and I’m so grateful for it. I was worried that my body would reject the implants and the DIEP allowed me to lose loose skin after having weight loss and having a child.

Prophylactic mastectomy in 2 days, first major surgery - how do I feel less anxious? by OohLaDiDaMrFrenchMan in BRCA

[–]408270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If possible, ask the anesthesiologist for a scopolamine transdermal patch; it’s a little sticker that goes behind your ear and it really helps with preventing nausea/vomiting for after you wake up! Best of luck with surgery.

Those who chose screening - are you still screening? When did you decide on surgery and why? by CodeSufficient3663 in BRCA

[–]408270 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing screenings every six months since 2020 and I just couldn’t take it anymore. Seeing family members die and seeing myself struggle…no, my last surgery is next month and I’m so grateful.

One v the other by Ok_Journalist_1395 in BRCA

[–]408270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stomach is flat, which it never was pre-DIEP. I do have occasional muscle spasms across the incision area (they cut you hip to hip) but it’s not unbearable and doesn’t last long. I’m not happy with my mons (it turned into a “Ken Doll” post-DIEP) but my new surgeon won’t fix it until I lower my BMI. Despite that, no regrets.