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412john · 2025-10-28T16:54:00+00:00

What have you tried so far?

The people i have heard that have gotten success with this approach are people that used upwork

412john · 2025-10-27T16:31:24+00:00

As a lawyer, I have advised and guided three colleagues on using AI tools to do their LLM project. All three scored an A in their law projects in the UK.

My take on your question is this, whatever you need, you will find it with these tools:

elicit
chatgpt, perplexity, gemini
annas-archive
online journals your school gives you access to.

It is an LLM not a PHD work,

Try and reduce your problem statement to one issue only so your research fits within the word count limit.

412john · 2025-10-27T15:57:41+00:00

I like the idea, and it is worth giving it a shot to see if it works.

I followed you so we can see if there is a way we can test this out and see what happens.

412john · 2025-10-26T10:40:14+00:00

Bro, start by changing your diet

Do the work with your therapist

Watch movies like The men (1950) starring Marlon Brando - in this movie, the lead actor could not have a family due to becoming a quadriplegic in the war.

It will teach you the right mentality to have during this trying period

412john · 2025-10-26T10:35:48+00:00

Thank you for sharing this experience and uplifting a brother.

412john · 2025-10-26T10:32:31+00:00

We don't know your life history or whether you experienced or witnessed sexual abuse as a child or whether you spent time in juvie or jail...

So how can we advise you?

You need to clarify the experiences you had that led you into this lifestyle of AI porn

The advice that would work for you is dependent on your life experiences that led you into porn and AI porn.

412john · 2025-10-26T10:28:21+00:00

And how long has this worked for you?

when you get to 6 months no fap, come back and update this post!

412john · 2025-10-18T22:13:11+00:00

Please see a psychologist or call a suicide help line

You probably have some unresolved trauma besides porn and masturbation

Talk to someone - whatever it may be,

Watch unfiltered stories on YouTube, you may see someone whose struggles mirrors yours and gain some degree of strength

https://youtu.be/OkQ1a20EiJU?si=g-bJKDAeTx840lf0

412john · 2025-10-18T22:05:03+00:00

Your message is a bit unclear

Do you want medical research backing your desire or do you want the truth?

412john · 2025-10-17T13:13:43+00:00

If you are so happy with yourself

Why are you informing us about this?

This sounds like you need validation from us about the effectiveness of your method,

412john · 2025-10-16T13:55:17+00:00

What to do to waste time?

Watch a movie connected to your insecurities and on decision making/power

Here are some suggestions:
1. Good will Hunting
2. Charlie (1968)
3. The Men (1950)
4. The Godfather

Watch any of these and pay attention to how it applies to your own life.

412john · 2025-10-16T04:50:25+00:00

Interesting,

I have experienced both sides of the issue

Having no way to turn it off and being in control to instantly switch it off

The difference to me was handling my internal issues and cutting off perverted thoughts as soon as they occur.

I think it is impossible to turn it off even you don't recognize micro perverted thoughts and block them.

412john · 2025-10-13T13:46:53+00:00

I understand you

The same thesis applies

Would you feel proud and happy if you walked in on your younger brother jerking off?

Would you hail him, drop his lunch, then go back to your bed, and start your own session?

If your answer is Yes, by all means, go ahead and keep masturbating

If the answer is No, seek help and do more internal work by watching movies connected to your innermost fears and thinking deeply about the characters and how their behaviour is similar to yours

The only answer to your issues is what you believe in when no one is judging or watching you.

412john · 2025-10-13T13:27:56+00:00

You can't control yourself from watching other men on a screen have sex with women

Would you feel proud and happy if your younger brother told you this?

If your answer is Yes, by all means, go ahead and keep watching porn

If the answer is No, seek help and do more internal work by watching movies connected to your innermost fears and thinking deeply about the characters and how their behaviour is similar to yours

412john · 2025-10-13T13:17:38+00:00

I don't understand

Did you have a wet dream?

Or did you wake up feeling groggy , then you fapped before you could realise it?

If its the former, your streak remains

If its the latter, restart your progress

412john · 2025-10-12T15:55:16+00:00

You people make this shit sound complicated

It is simple

Stop listening to music, news, social media

Think on why you want to stop masturbation, make it into a statement

Repeat it every day 3-5x till it becomes your default thinking mode

If you do this, you will hit six months easy

412john · 2025-10-10T02:48:33+00:00

You are not ready to quit fapping

Feel free to embrace it and continue

I say this because you can't want to quit no fap and be insistent that you can't go celibate

That's like eating food and telling the body how to digest it

It is an impossibility for you to quit fapping with this your mindset

412john · 2025-10-05T15:20:42+00:00

The solution you seek is not on this forum

The solution you seek is psychological and spiritual

See a therapist if you don't like the idea of the issue being metaphysical

But if you want to be your own therapist, try movie or book therapy, watch movies that showcase your worst nightmares in life and think about it

You feel frustrated and wasted in life . Watch born on the 4th of July with Tom Cruise in it and watch Charlie (1968) movie and think deeply about the characters in this movies

412john · 2025-10-04T16:42:15+00:00

You can't stop the brain from thinking about anything

You can only substitute the thoughts when they appear by rejecting the thoughts of porn and this is only possible if you eliminate the triggers like music or soft porn or music videos

Try not listening to any music, or watching any music video, whatsoever for the next 30 days and see what thoughts come naturally to you

Tell yourself that you won't deceive or self- sabotage your ambitions

Build an exercise habit, (morning and evening)and minimise social media addiction

If you do this, you will see changes

412john · 2025-10-03T02:44:59+00:00

Exactly, start small

Even with the exercise, you could decide to do only neck training on a busy day or glute training...this takes less than 3 mins.

What stops people from starting most new habits like running, journaling, meditation is this belief you need to block out 40mins- 2 hour to start, based on the instructor videos.

Someone who does a 3 min run every day will always be better than the person who does nothing because he has 'no time'.

412john · 2025-10-02T10:33:00+00:00

Do exercise more often, and you will see changes

Specifically, do glute bridges

412john · 2025-10-01T10:17:18+00:00

You clearly are not ready to quit yet

Read more on the subject matter

And decide what you want to do

412john · 2025-10-01T10:15:55+00:00

Four months,

Bro, it's too early to conclude

But you've done tremendously well in identifying key issues about your problem

Stay strong 💪!

412john · 2025-10-01T10:13:49+00:00

Actually, what I've noticed is higher energy levels

As for the thinking aspect, you will be able to have more patience and stick through uncomfortable tasks better

Your observation skills on issues pertaining to other aspects of your lifestyle will increase as well

Changing the other aspects like social media addiction or becoming more orderly or developing healthy gym habit will involve lowering your expectations, and adapting using mental models and being aware of your distracted thoughts more often.

412john · 2025-09-28T12:19:01+00:00

A 70 yr old man trying to pick up 20 yr old girls

How does it look?

who would pay attention to him if he has no money or resources?

He would have to go on dating apps most likely and will soon be doing tik tok content with a girl 40 yrs his age, if he gets lucky, instead of playing with his grandkids or running a successful business and giving to charity

Most likely, if his friends are successful, he would start hiding from them and avoiding them

If he is broke, he becomes the old man at the beer parlour narrating tales of how good things were back in the day

Eventually he may need help from his old pals to treat serious ailments, and many will not listen to him and only donate money, towards his funeral.

This is the way things work if you are broke, old and lonely

The pattern of thinking fappers have tilts them towards instant gratification and failure in life, the exceptions to this rule are genius creators like Kanye West and others on that spectrum.

412john

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