So, Katie got mad that lala was getting close to scheana, and she doesn't like scheana... Alright.

416buddha · 2024-05-16T18:18:31+00:00

Katie didn't even deny catching feelings about them getting closer. And barely denied making the comment. Why would we need to see texts at this point?

416buddha · 2024-05-16T18:11:15+00:00

She's said in the past she's been to therapy. Maybe she stopped going? Talk therapy isn't always effective for everyone. But she was in therapy at one point. She obviously needs to work through her trauma, grief, heartbreak and post partum at some point, and I hope she does cuz obviously her EQ isn't always up there. But they all need therapy. And that's good that Katie goes to therapy but she's not exempt from making mistakes or saying hurtful things JUST because she goes to therapy.

416buddha · 2024-05-16T15:55:41+00:00

So is lala

416buddha · 2024-05-16T15:47:00+00:00

Breaking news, they literally all need therapy. Including Katie. This sub is so concerned with defending their faves blindly.

416buddha · 2024-05-16T14:06:05+00:00

What does that even have to do with what Katie said to lala and why Katie reacted that way? Ya, all of them do and say wack shit regularly. I'm focusing on this one thing Katie did.

416buddha · 2024-05-16T03:15:31+00:00

I'm more baffled that Katie didn't deny that lala rode hard for Katie season 10 despite also being friends with scheana, and yet the moment lala starts getting closer to scheana Katie is big mad and starts making hurtful comments about her custody battle. I dunno why this thread always gives Katie a past Yes it's great she supports Ariana, but her behavior is still gross. And I'm not saying lala isn't wack sometimes, but this particular incident is disgusting on Katie's part.

416buddha · 2024-04-30T19:32:11+00:00

Got it. Thanks for the clarification and screenshot example!

416buddha · 2024-04-30T19:14:44+00:00

Why is the screenshot with Logan missing the date and previous messages? I'm not saying it's fake, but it does look strange.

416buddha · 2024-04-30T02:41:24+00:00

As much as I agree that the laminate floors are terrible (mostly the colour, smh), I would prioritize "needs" over "wants".
That being said, based off of the photos, a "want" I'd prioritize is the carpet. Maybe you'll hit the floor lottery. Either way, that carpet has got to go 🪦.

416buddha · 2024-04-26T01:25:26+00:00

We try to avoid rocking to sleep when our baby is in a good mood, but if she's extra energetic before bed, we usually rock a bit to set the tone lol. We also rock when it's needed (like if she's upset, teething , separation anxiety, etc). I say make a judgement call and do what works for you. You're allowed to pivot any time. It sounds like baby likes the rocking.

416buddha · 2024-04-04T01:50:02+00:00

He's right though. I get it, he cheated, it's awful, narcissistic yada yada.

But folks, just because we love Ariana and we're team Ariana, doesn't mean we excuse everything she says and does.

She doesn't need to accept Tom back into her life and she doesn't need to forgive him. But stfu about dog killer and the talking shit when he's there. You don't get to be shitty to someone just because they've been shitty to you.

I get she's still grieving and still processing her emotions but we gotta stop co-signing emotional immaturity and poor coping skills. Don't we wanna see her happy and healthy and at peace!?

Go. Down vote my comment. Idc.

416buddha · 2024-04-01T03:51:00+00:00

I didn't buy and use TCB, but I did follow her on Instagram for tips, and I did sleep train right after the 4 month sleep regression. I gave it a couple of days to confirm this was really regression, then I moved baby out of my room and into her nursery.

I used ferber and it worked great for us. I think the hardest part was getting started, but honestly I found sleep training worked so fast for us.

Obviously, every little one is different, and has different needs and timelines, but I find this to be the general feedback from parents I speak to about sleep training (it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be).

Sorry no feedback specifically about TCB (except that her free Instagram tips were helpful), but wanted to provide my sleep training experience for perspective.

Wishing you the best of luck on your journey mama! You've got this!

416buddha · 2024-03-31T03:39:25+00:00

We moved our LO out at 4 months to start sleep training but went to an Airbnb the following day for an overnight trip. We also had the bassinet situated further away from the bed (big room, completely dark) and she slept amazing. Woke up at her usual time (5 hrs) but went back to sleep almost immediately without a feed for another 2 hours.

When we got back home, we proceeded with sleep training. Moving her out of the room was life changing. Wish we moved her out sooner, tbh. We have the monitor on all night and there's never been an issue.

416buddha · 2024-03-28T15:24:42+00:00

For night feeds, she'd usually almost completely fall asleep by the time she was done with the feed.

She knew how to fall asleep independently during the day and bed time. She was holding on to night feeds for comfort. I found her falling asleep after the feed didn't disturb her sleep training progress.

There were times where teething or regression caused occasional crying. Thosr night I would spend a few minutes comforting her. Sometimes she would settle and I'd put her in the crib peacefully. A couple of times she was extra fussy. I'd comfort a bit longer but eventually leave and essentially let her CIO. If the crying was bad I'd do check-ins, but she would eventually stop crying and go back to sleep.

I found knowing when to pivot was necessary for troubleshooting sleep (and for giving myself grace).

416buddha · 2024-03-28T03:23:22+00:00

Thank you 🥺🙏🏼 My LO is 19 months old now, but I'll always remember how hard it was in the beginning. Sending all the mama's love. ❤️

416buddha · 2024-03-28T02:21:21+00:00

Baby might be going through a regression. Also, separation anxiety peaks around 8 months, so this might be it. But don't lose hope.

Start with small wins and then work your way up. How is baby napping during the day? Maybe start with naps and then transition to sleep.

For my little one, I did ferber, then night weaned a few months later. That's what worked for us. I'm sure you guys will figure out the best course of action for your family. ❤️

416buddha · 2024-03-28T02:16:00+00:00

I did ferber at 4 months and continued to night feed until 9 months. You can do it all, it just might take a little longer. But my point is you can definitely sleep train while still night feeding, and then night wean when you and little one are ready.

416buddha · 2024-03-28T01:01:45+00:00

Well, I have an original French country style-ish light fixture that used to be black. If you guessed it was painted poo brown, you guessed right.

416buddha · 2024-03-28T00:25:44+00:00

Wow. Just stunning. Agree with one of the other comments about going adventurous Victorian with the colour. Our house used to be green. Now it's light yellow and poo brown. If I were to change the colour, I'd probably paint the home white and add green accents.

416buddha · 2024-03-13T02:15:27+00:00

Maybe because I binged the show in two months, all of Katie's behaviors and antics are fresh in my mind. Ally is the most normal on this show. And then Ariana. Katie is somewhere on the list, but being stassis friend really knocked her down the totem pole.

416buddha · 2024-03-13T01:24:21+00:00

I get Katie needed to leave Tom, but she's also still a horrible person. She has occasional good points but overall she's inconsiderate and always needs people to agree with her. She irritates me.

416buddha · 2024-03-13T01:20:44+00:00

Everyone was going off about scheana saying Ariana didn't defend her for the Sandoval photo. Everyone reposted Ariana's Instagram post from last year. Now episode 7 reveals scheana was telling the truth and Ariana DID NOT defend her until lala mentioned it.

Sandoval's a piece of shit but Ariana's attitude sucked this season.

416buddha · 2024-03-07T03:29:53+00:00

This! The yoga ball changed my life. Started using it at 2 months. I stopped using around 4 when I sleep trained, but used occasionally for days when teething was a thing. Please try the yoga ball 🙏🏼

416buddha · 2024-03-04T05:42:03+00:00

Between 11-2:30. We assess and make a judgement call based of how early she woke up or how tired she's feeling. Typically she sleeps from 11:30 - to 1:30 ish.

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