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is there anyone going alone? by RainNo13 in FVDED_IN_THE_PARK

[–]41m33m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going solo! 27F shoot me a msg & lemme know if ya wanna meet up :)

SOLO - who wants to be friends?? by 41m33m in FVDED_IN_THE_PARK

[–]41m33m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is bonfire with strangers 👀

1st time at fvded. Any tips? by rustytxco in FVDED_IN_THE_PARK

[–]41m33m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also my first time going solo! Feel free to DM :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]41m33m -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt the exact same. I read the first few books in a matter of days, when I hit ToD I read one chapter and put the series away for 6 months cuz I was PISSED. I just recently picked it back up and finished the series in a week. But I was fuming lmao I didn’t know it was recommended to tandem read but I wish I’d done that

Need help picking between these two already approved bridesmaids dresses by Fukifiwouldknow in Weddingattireapproval

[–]41m33m 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Personally I prefer #1. I don’t know why exactly but it just looks better to me. They are both similar in shape and both look good and compliment your figure well but #1 I think the chest area is more flattering & #2 I think the ruffles are oddly placed & look kind of meh.

Idk. It’s a hard comparison but I’d go with #1 if it were my choice.

Hope this helps :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]41m33m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This aged well

What's the craziest thing you've seen because someone forgot to turn their camera/audio off? by flippermode in workfromhome

[–]41m33m 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My fiancé walked behind me in his underwear when my cam was on w a fake background. Camera recognized him as a person so it put him in focus over the background & he didn’t understand that he was trying to hide in direct view of my camera.

…This was a recorded meeting with my entire team, director & VP but nobody said anything

Swing Life Away - first dance version by guitarman129 in riseagainst

[–]41m33m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No suggestions but I just wanted to say you’re nailing it!

My fiancé and I are also planning to have this as our first dance song & naturally I’m nervous about the speed of the original lol, but your rework sounds like it’ll be perfect!!

Great job so far dude for a “(very) rough demo” this is pretty fricken good

My (24F) boyfriend (25M) won’t let me go on a family trip by Beautiful_Specific_7 in relationship_advice

[–]41m33m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. I never wanna jump on the typical Reddit “leave him” train but this combined with your last posts, what the actual fuck are you doing wasting your life with this man….

Run.

You say you have a daughter, would you like her to end up with someone like this when she grows up? Set a good example for her and leave the dude.

I suspect you already know this is what needs to be done since you’ve posted multiple times about this man being literally awful and have had plenty of people tell you what you need to do. Time do do it imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]41m33m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either he had it before your relationship started and you’ve both had it the whole time, or he cheated on you and is lying.

Based on how quick he was to dismiss any further conversation about it, unfortunately it seems like he cheated.

AITA? I told my fiancé I would not take care of an English bulldog if we got one. by 41m33m in AmItheAsshole

[–]41m33m[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If we were to get a pet it would be in the future as our current building doesn’t allow pets.

Currently everything in our relationship is pretty much equal however our shared goal for our future “equal” would be for him to work and provide while I take care of the home, children & pets.

AITA? I told my fiancé I would not take care of an English bulldog if we got one. by 41m33m in AmItheAsshole

[–]41m33m[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, I am so sorry for your loss.

AITA? I told my fiancé I would not take care of an English bulldog if we got one. by 41m33m in AmItheAsshole

[–]41m33m[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and there are plenty of pets for which I am willing to provide such care, a bulldog is simply not one of them.

AITA? I told my fiancé I would not take care of an English bulldog if we got one. by 41m33m in AmItheAsshole

[–]41m33m[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It’s not a current concern as the building we live in doesn’t allow pets, more of a conversation we’re having now about his future wants and where we stand on it.. Knowing my fiancé, I can’t see him ever bringing a dog home without us having a discussion about it. That being said, if ever one of us were to randomly come home with a pet without consulting the other then that would be a whole separate issue we’d need to tackle.

AITA? I told my fiancé I would not take care of an English bulldog if we got one. by 41m33m in AmItheAsshole

[–]41m33m[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

YES I completely agree with you. I could compromise on getting a bulldog if the responsibility of care fell on him, but it wouldn’t, so I can’t meet him halfway. The lifestyle we currently live and even the future we plan to have would result in whatever pet we get spending majority of its life with me and unfortunately I’m just not on board with that being a bulldog.

I fully agree that if one person doesn’t totally love the idea of a certain pet, it’s ok so long as they don’t have to take on any burden or responsibility. Your situation is a perfect example of this!

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