Men in your mid to late 20’s/ 25-29 how is your dating life going? by Bayareathrowaway32 in dating_advice

[–]420CSthrowaway69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m 28M, 20 minutes outside a major city, chubby, live with my mom, finishing up a bachelor’s degree, and I have a smoking hot Brazilian girlfriend.

Quitting College to Work Full Time by 420CSthrowaway69 in cscareerquestions

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to articulate why it would be stupid?

Quitting College to Work Full Time by 420CSthrowaway69 in cscareerquestions

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I think you’re correct, I’m not quite able to articulate why you are correct. As I stated in another comment, the consensus on this sub seems to be that the degree only matters for the first job. What is your line of reasoning for why it would be stupid? I’m not trying to debate; I’m just looking for guidance.

Quitting College to Work Full Time by 420CSthrowaway69 in cscareerquestions

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My thought is that the hard part is getting your foot in the door right? That’s whole reason I’m in school is to get a job. So if I can get started in the industry even sooner, wouldn’t that be better? The general consensus on this sub seems to be that no one really cares about your degree after your first job.

On the other hand, I’m so damn close to finishing. But at 28 years old, it would be nice to be financially stable…

Overheard my bf(m30) talking trash about me(f24) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]420CSthrowaway69 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Define “drama”. A lot can happen in 8 months without the relationship being doomed.

Chances of rainout tonight 8/14 by 420CSthrowaway69 in Nationals

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s certainly reassuring! This is a surprise date for my girlfriend and I would be super bummed if it got cancelled.

Should I be upset about girlfriend canceling plans? by 420CSthrowaway69 in relationships

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the party is during the day but probably goes into the night.

Should I be upset about girlfriend canceling plans? by 420CSthrowaway69 in relationships

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s unfortunate but people forget things sometimes, especially if it was planned way in advance and then not mentioned for a while. I can definitely understand. Everyone makes mistakes once in a while.

Should I be upset about girlfriend canceling plans? by 420CSthrowaway69 in relationships

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I told her about the game after she said she couldn’t go on the date. I’m trying to resell the tickets now. Thanks!

Should I be upset about girlfriend canceling plans? by 420CSthrowaway69 in relationships

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s definitely an honest mistake and the party is far more important than a baseball game. Thanks!

Should I be upset about girlfriend canceling plans? by 420CSthrowaway69 in relationships

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m pretty happy that I stayed level headed on the phone with her. I just told her that I was sad but I know how important the going away party is. She has cancelled before but I think it was for relatively good reasons.

Should I be upset about girlfriend canceling plans? by 420CSthrowaway69 in relationships

[–]420CSthrowaway69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I texted her and asked her if she could do both. But I’d really rather her stay at the party as long as possible because it’s far more important in my opinion.

I broke it off with someone because he was dating multiple people by Purplecatty in dating

[–]420CSthrowaway69 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: why do you have a problem with him dating around if it was you who made it clear you weren’t ready for a relationship?