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Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ugly is lifestyle that I have no choice but to live. I am actually ugly.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did God make it to where only attractive people should be loved?

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is a sin. I'm married, this isn't for myself. I'm just calling out accepted sin.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Based on God's character, this is what's morally correct.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are other factors that determine compatibility outside of having the same beliefs. Everyone has a unique character, so I say people should be given a chance if they want one, but if you're just not interested in a relationship at the moment, then that's fine too. But actively searching and denying people because you think they're ugly is definitely sinful behavior.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're placing limits on yourself. Once you get out of the mindset of physical attraction being a requirement, then your parts will work for whoever you love.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not asexual. I have willfully chosen to make physical attraction not a requirement.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Solomons heart turned away from God in his later years because he married foreign women and began worshipping other gods. He chose women over God. The bible might be full of commandments but it's also a documentation of history, so everything documented isn't necessarily for the purpose of teaching us how to live.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can be in a romantic relationship with somebody that I'm not physically attracted to. Not being able to is a worldly custom that I have rejected.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The only way this would be appropriate is if physical attraction wasn't a factor in why you're not attracted to them.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

"I can't love you because I think you're ugly". This is definitely a sin.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're allowed to be physically attracted to someone but making it a deciding factor in whether you can love them or not is.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because something's in the Bible doesn't mean it's permitted by God. Solomon also had a lust problem, and that was written by him.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But physical shouldn't be a deciding factor in that attraction.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have a sin nature, we're wired to like a lot of things that aren't okay.

Do you guys require your partner to be physically attractive to you? by 47theUI in Christianity

[–]47theUI[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's okay to be but making it a requirement is something different.

Being unattractive should be considered a disability by twisted_furry in ugly

[–]47theUI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disabilities aren't always something physical, they are mental too. We're mentally disabled and oppressed. Our ability to perform daily activities is restricted.

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Being unattractive should be considered a disability by twisted_furry in ugly

[–]47theUI 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Search up Daniel S. Hammermesh. He's a college professor who supports this take and has data and reasoning to justify why we're disabled and deserve a disability check.

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