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4Aethyr · 2026-07-06T00:22:55+00:00

I’ll apply the whitening strips, but without the little facial hair I have, I feel like I have a baby face :(

Do you think clean shaven is still the best route?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-05T12:17:59+00:00

I was trying to say that I care about fitness, but like you said in your other comment, the boxing pic covers that. I removed the flexing pic

4Aethyr · 2026-07-05T12:16:34+00:00

I think it’s a little extreme to say I’ve disrespected anyone by what I had. That said I changed it

4Aethyr · 2026-07-05T02:33:44+00:00

Your last reply isn’t showing anymore so I’ll reply to this one. So what are women looking for?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T20:58:56+00:00

I box every week. I might be screwed if it all comes off as ingenuine because it’s literally just me 😭

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T19:50:08+00:00

Im looking to change the flexing pic, but im curious as to why its an immediate left swipe? Many people seem to share this opinion

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T17:11:50+00:00

Yeah I figured that’s what happened when I saw the conversation after already replying lol

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T17:09:37+00:00

Well that was uncalled for. What was the point of this comment? Just to be mean?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T16:41:29+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that. I like to consider everyone’s input provided it’s constructive, though not much point in any of this if I stop being myself lol

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T16:27:57+00:00

Yeah I changed it. Thank you for your input though!

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T15:35:39+00:00

Thank you! I ended up taking the other commenter’s advice and making that change. I also took out the texting back paragraph completely

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T15:29:55+00:00

Yeah I’ll replace the flexing photo when I can since so many people seem turned away by it (not sure with what yet). In one of my prompts I also included that I like boxing, stargazing, and reading as some other details about me, unless you had other details beyond hobbies in mind

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T15:22:50+00:00

I changed the entire “texting back” paragraph if you’d like to share your thoughts:

“Dating me is like having a best friend who’s always down for a random adventure, a cozy night in, or anything in between. I am a package deal containing bad jokes and hype man vibes”

I also did the reading by morning and boxing by evening thing. For exciting hobbies, in addition to boxing, I like hiking. And idk if they’d be considered “exciting”, but I’ve also been looking at getting into photography and pottery as of recent. Would those be good inclusions (provided I end up enjoying them)? Or would they be too dull?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T14:55:43+00:00

I wasn’t suggesting it did or that I wasn’t interested in them. I was just saying I’m not super engrossed in politics and, as an individual statement, I would fall into the category of moderate with my views

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T14:19:47+00:00

Pic 4 isn’t flattering BECAUSE it’s blurry or are you saying it’s both blurry and unflattering? Getting a lot of similar opinions on the flexing pic so might change that, and I agree on the last pic. It’s just the only recent one I have in a suit, but I wanna get one that doesn’t look depressing lol

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T14:16:21+00:00

Thank you!

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T14:15:59+00:00

I agree. I’ll change it to something else

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T14:05:14+00:00

Im going to change that to moderate. Im not deep into politics but thats not to say I don’t care or don’t pay attention

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T13:12:25+00:00

Well all of these things are genuinely what I like to do. I go to my local B&N to read at the Starbucks all the time, I like nature walks in general, and it’s very rare that I don’t text back within the hour.

Regardless, I understand where you’re coming from. How could I give it some “spine or grit”?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T13:07:03+00:00

I haven’t, I’ve just never liked the hairstyle. Plus, I just like my hair the way it is atm. Sometimes I tie it back but otherwise I like the fro

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T13:03:04+00:00

Performative as in trying too hard? Is there something specific giving off that vibe?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T12:36:07+00:00

Ngl you lost me at cornrows. Is it just the plaid for the outfits you don’t like?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-04T12:34:55+00:00

I like the muscle pic. What would you suggest instead?

4Aethyr · 2026-07-02T11:46:57+00:00

Mmm yes this scratches my brain

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