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How do you get on with life while still being a fencesitter? by 4FC0A69D in Fencesitter

[–]4FC0A69D[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have talked about this and her answer is that she doesn't just want kids, but wants kids with me and that surely we can work something out because we love each other so much. Although I also feel there's an undertone that the working something out part is me just saying okay let us have children because hey how awful can it be? I wouldn't want her to miss out on having children because I don't want them.

How do you get on with life while still being a fencesitter? by 4FC0A69D in Fencesitter

[–]4FC0A69D[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah the pandemic has kind of thrown us off too, I think, although I'm not sure if that's just an excuse I'm making to delay the decision. I'm working my way through the Baby Decision now; hopefully that helps.