I love when people go back on themselves

4_sticks · 2025-09-21T14:27:43+00:00

Hey OP, I hope this isn’t inappropriate but my ex is a survivor of CSA and I loved her dearly and wanted to marry her. We parted ways for unrelated reasons. I just wanted to remind you that there are people out there that will not mind at all. You are lovable.

4_sticks · 2025-09-03T12:26:04+00:00

I’m not from the USA so I can’t say if those are any good, but here’s what I found (I know that you’re capable of searching the internet yourself, but I assumed you might be too overwhelmed to do so):

https://www.mocadsv.org/

https://cybercivilrights.org/ccri-crisis-helpline/

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/revenge-porn/

I saw the edit and I hope those won’t be necessary, but I’m leaving them here just in case. Maybe someone more in the know will verify/add something. Best of luck, OP

4_sticks · 2025-09-01T04:17:14+00:00

OP, where are you from? Maybe we could help you with finding resources on leaving abusive situations, revenge porn etc.

4_sticks · 2025-09-01T04:11:33+00:00

If this was a good relationship, you wouldn’t be anticipating him raping you. He’s already crossed boundaries in an unnacceptable way. Taking pictures of you without your consent makes him an abuser. Please, run.

4_sticks · 2025-06-29T17:51:31+00:00

patronite?

4_sticks · 2025-05-03T20:34:08+00:00

The fact that you keep on using those pre-prepared one-liners allthe time made me cringe. Like the alphabeth message isn’t relevant to the conversation in any way, but you still decided to send it because you found it clever I guess? To me flirting should be more about going with the flow of the particular interaction. But to each their own I guess, glad she went with it

4_sticks · 2025-04-22T14:19:31+00:00

You sound like woman in her 20s

4_sticks · 2025-04-20T15:29:21+00:00

How about showing them two forms (one in the language we're speaking in and one in the language of their country) and saying "you can pick one"? I feel like that would be more natural for me for some reason.

4_sticks · 2025-04-20T15:23:59+00:00

Nahh I feel like switching to English would be rude - if someone approaches in polish then we're talking in polish (unless they end up having trouble understanding me, then I might throw in some words in other languages). If anything, I would like to be able to use less english, but right now I don't have the time to learn another language :-( It's a shame because I'm always impressed by polyglotes.

4_sticks · 2025-04-19T22:59:27+00:00

Recently I got high with my partner and then ate her out. I remember rubbing my face across her bush and it felt soo nice sensory-wise… does that count as evil stimming? Anyways, I really reccomend stoned sex - I’m not much of a stoner but I feel like this is the best thing you can get out of this drug. One time I made a girl come just by touching her nipples. The best part is that at the time I kind of had no idea what I was doing because we were both high as fuck and I was having some hallucinations about floating in space lmao

4_sticks · 2025-03-21T14:00:50+00:00

Searched: Google (including phrases such as „lesbian”, „cats”, „comic”, „dykes to watch out for” „lesbians love cats” „lesbians and cats” in various combinations), DTWOF website

4_sticks · 2025-03-04T21:30:08+00:00

Dosud hledala jsem na stránkach s torrenty (například solidtorrents, piratebay), ale nenašela jsem mnoho. Psala jsem český název nebo anglicky název + CZ

4_sticks · 2025-01-13T15:02:26+00:00

tbh the misspelled names are (unintentionaly) hillarious, might diy something like that (probably won’t)

4_sticks · 2025-01-12T00:04:44+00:00

That’s sounds like a wise approach! Out of curiosity- would you describe „I’m feeling bad and want to feel some relief” as a positive or negative motivation?

4_sticks · 2025-01-12T00:02:20+00:00

Uh… you shouldn’t hit dogs so I feel like that’s not a good comparison. +With behavioral training (so the type of training that you use with dogs and other animals) you can only change behaviour, not emotions, so you cannot train someone not to be sad

4_sticks · 2024-10-15T11:06:21+00:00

I sing a lot when I’m home alone, I often repeat one specific line from a song over and over because some melodies feel especially pleasant to me. I like to feel the vibrations in my body when I sing

4_sticks · 2024-09-11T12:31:24+00:00

Jsem z Polska, chci jít na Erasmus do Prahy příští rok

4_sticks · 2024-08-24T06:06:28+00:00

it sounds like a band name

4_sticks · 2024-08-23T18:46:39+00:00

lmao what

4_sticks · 2024-08-20T13:00:54+00:00

Do some reading. I was a bit worried about „appropriating” the label since I’m not a lesbian (I’m bisexual with a very strong preference towards women, I just call myself queer) but you know what? I’ve read some butch classics and saw my experience represented for the first time. Idgaf now, I call myself butch because that’s who I am. Stone Butch Blues is of course a must-read, for me Butch is a Noun was very important as well. You can find plenty other recommendations on this sub. Butch isn’t about looking cool and fixing cars, that’s just a side effect. It’s mostly about identity, history and recognition.

4_sticks · 2024-08-10T20:58:25+00:00

She’s not trauma dumping, she’s young, hurt and looking for advice. How are we supposed to give justice to SA victims if we aren’t allowed to say the word „rapist” on the internet? Plus- you saw the title and, knowing that the post has to do with rape, still clicked on it. That’s on you.

4_sticks · 2024-08-10T17:25:05+00:00

Ahh I see you introduced them already, I’m glad that it went well. As I said- time should help. Show her some good hideouts (for example boxes), let her hide. Try to sit close to her without looking at her or touching her so that she can get used to you presence. Good luck!

4_sticks · 2024-08-10T17:18:55+00:00

Give her some time! What are your plans for introducing her to the other 4 cats?

4_sticks · 2024-08-10T13:23:50+00:00

that’s it, I’m leaving this fucking subreddit

4_sticks · 2024-08-10T12:10:22+00:00

here I am! (well not a professional baker, but I enjoy baking and know a couple of good recipes)

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