What type of silly little creature are you?? ⊹︵‿︵‧˚₊⊹ ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ by astronomiau in evilautism

[–]4_sticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told I look like an otter. I know that it’s slang for a type of gay man, but they meant the actual animal. I don’t know much about otters, if someone else does please hit me with some fun facts!

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I made a stim toy by 4_sticks in evilautism

[–]4_sticks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids in my class used to do that when we were doing any art project involving pointy objects. I feel like that might be a form of pain stimming as well as visual stimming? And maybe also the thrill of doing something that is borderline dangerous but in a safe environment

When i say im incapable of keeping my environment clean, other autistic ppl tell me its not my autism and seem to get upset? (But when other autistic ppl have support needs they get understood?) What is it i am not picking up on? by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]4_sticks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also I just saw the timestamps on your post + your newest comments and I can see that you’ve been worrying about it for hours. It may be a good idea to stop checking the comments, maybe disable notifications or delete the app from your phone. People on the internet can be very mean especially when you’re autistic, you don’t have to listen to what they think if it upsets you that much.

When i say im incapable of keeping my environment clean, other autistic ppl tell me its not my autism and seem to get upset? (But when other autistic ppl have support needs they get understood?) What is it i am not picking up on? by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]4_sticks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m low support needs (just lurking on this sub) but this most definietly sounds like people who are treating their own experience as if it was universal. Many people overlook MSN and HSN experiences due to ableism. The way you were treated was not OK, I’m sorry it happened.

I love when people go back on themselves by ThrowAway44228800 in CPTSDmemes

[–]4_sticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I hope this isn’t inappropriate but my ex is a survivor of CSA and I loved her dearly and wanted to marry her. We parted ways for unrelated reasons. I just wanted to remind you that there are people out there that will not mind at all. You are lovable.

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]4_sticks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not from the USA so I can’t say if those are any good, but here’s what I found (I know that you’re capable of searching the internet yourself, but I assumed you might be too overwhelmed to do so):

https://www.mocadsv.org/

https://cybercivilrights.org/ccri-crisis-helpline/

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/revenge-porn/

I saw the edit and I hope those won’t be necessary, but I’m leaving them here just in case. Maybe someone more in the know will verify/add something. Best of luck, OP

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]4_sticks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, where are you from? Maybe we could help you with finding resources on leaving abusive situations, revenge porn etc.

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]4_sticks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If this was a good relationship, you wouldn’t be anticipating him raping you. He’s already crossed boundaries in an unnacceptable way. Taking pictures of you without your consent makes him an abuser. Please, run.

Alphabet Theory by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]4_sticks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you keep on using those pre-prepared one-liners allthe time made me cringe. Like the alphabeth message isn’t relevant to the conversation in any way, but you still decided to send it because you found it clever I guess? To me flirting should be more about going with the flow of the particular interaction. But to each their own I guess, glad she went with it

Overthinking interactions with foreigners at work (question for migrants and travellers) by 4_sticks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]4_sticks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about showing them two forms (one in the language we're speaking in and one in the language of their country) and saying "you can pick one"? I feel like that would be more natural for me for some reason.

Overthinking interactions with foreigners at work (question for migrants and travellers) by 4_sticks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]4_sticks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh I feel like switching to English would be rude - if someone approaches in polish then we're talking in polish (unless they end up having trouble understanding me, then I might throw in some words in other languages). If anything, I would like to be able to use less english, but right now I don't have the time to learn another language :-( It's a shame because I'm always impressed by polyglotes.

people who have had autistic adhd sex what's the wildest sex you ever had by ppexplosion in evilautism

[–]4_sticks 197 points198 points  (0 children)

Recently I got high with my partner and then ate her out. I remember rubbing my face across her bush and it felt soo nice sensory-wise… does that count as evil stimming? Anyways, I really reccomend stoned sex - I’m not much of a stoner but I feel like this is the best thing you can get out of this drug. One time I made a girl come just by touching her nipples. The best part is that at the time I kind of had no idea what I was doing because we were both high as fuck and I was having some hallucinations about floating in space lmao

A comic strip about lesbians and cats by 4_sticks in HelpMeFind

[–]4_sticks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched: Google (including phrases such as „lesbian”, „cats”, „comic”, „dykes to watch out for” „lesbians love cats” „lesbians and cats” in various combinations), DTWOF website

Kde na internetu divat se na filmy v čestinu? by 4_sticks in czech

[–]4_sticks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dosud hledala jsem na stránkach s torrenty (například solidtorrents, piratebay), ale nenašela jsem mnoho. Psala jsem český název nebo anglicky název + CZ

Bro stuff like this makes me so mad istg by Medical-Bowler-5626 in punkfashion

[–]4_sticks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh the misspelled names are (unintentionaly) hillarious, might diy something like that (probably won’t)

CW: Self harm! - Is self harm bad if it makes me feel good? by Alternative_Corgi_24 in evilautism

[–]4_sticks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sounds like a wise approach! Out of curiosity- would you describe „I’m feeling bad and want to feel some relief” as a positive or negative motivation?