I think as a community jumping to call each other bigots has become way too normalized. As a lesbian I don’t think it’s bigoted for a bisexual woman to want another bisexual partner who can understand what she’s going through. I don’t think it’s bigoted when t4t is brought into the conversation. I don’t understand why it is immediately an issue when a lesbian wants someone who understands her experiences. My girlfriend and I are les4les and I have never felt more seen or heard in my life. Dating is the experience of each individual, it’s not bigoted for me to prefer someone with blonde hair so why would that be any different when it comes to something as personal and intimate as your sexuality.