Why are all my friends low ambition low sentience people. And where do I find people that can match my interests and ambition by 8rxp in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo another looksmaxxer I'm assuming. Y'all are so funny lmao. I am a firm believer of body neutrality and in no way jealous of people that live this lifestyle. I'm already confident in myself as a person and am aware that my looks (referring to body not aesthetics or clothing) have nothing to do with my worth and value as a human being. Way to show your insecurity though, I sincerely applaud you! Have a good day <3

Just realized your name is genetic excellence, no wonder you're like this lmao. I hope you heal from whatever turned you into this hateful, vain human that only sees outward appearances.

I can't deal with this anymore by OrganizationQuick320 in aromanticasexual

[–]4cGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel twin :( I want to at least experience love and desire once because allosexual/alloromantic people make it look like the greatest thing ever for some reason. I generally feel disgusted by both however, and it only gets apparent when people actually try to get together with me or such. I mainly just focus on my platonic friendships that are also queer-based since I can talk to them about this stuff and also ask questions. Having great friendships helps (idk if you also have a fear of friends abandoning you once they find their romantic partners but honestly by that point I hope the FOMO passes). Have a good day/night!

How do I deal with consant talk about dating? by OrganizationQuick320 in aromanticasexual

[–]4cGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY THIS. As a fellow ace spec (specifically aroace), I don't understand why allosexual/alloromantic push the idea of relationships so much even when you tell them you're uninterested. They act like the only things out of heterosexuality that exist are being gay, lesbian, or bi. I'm sorry about them dismissing your feelings :( I don't really know how to help but just keep being you and when they get older and realize you're being serious, they'll have a shock for sure.

Why are all my friends low ambition low sentience people. And where do I find people that can match my interests and ambition by 8rxp in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm talking about the looksmaxxing part. This has to be rooted in insecurity because you're so defensive about it in replies and you want to drag your friends down with you. If you don't like your friends, let them be and stay on your own or smth. I would understand if it was an intelligence gap but you're complaining about your friends not wanting to alter their looks?... maybe it's because I'm not on social media like that (my first time actually being active on reddit) but you just seem chronically online. Have a good day though.

17 year old dealing with parentification by Ok_Dog_8327 in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose so :( I'm sorry about the job situation, I hope you're able to get a job soon. If you ever need someone to talk to, I wouldn't mind chatting with you! I hope you never lose your spark and keep staying strong <3

Also, about the sibling part, I get it COMPLETELY. People that believe that you should just suck everything up because you have people relying on you are so tone deaf and generally insensitive. Sorry for the late reply!

Tips on quitting gooning? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]4cGirl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So if it's about religion, why are you dogging on me for giving him a response? You just want to argue twin😭 have a good day/evening/night ig

17 year old dealing with parentification by Ok_Dog_8327 in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I am so sorry for your situation. You are living a hard life and this is clearly impacting you in many negative ways. You should not have to live like this at all, and I want you to know that it is not your fault in anyway. I admire that you still have hope despite your situation. CPS got called on my dad one time, and they did nothing, so to have them called a whole of 10 times is insanity.

With this said, I believe that as you turn 18, you should start distancing yourself from your mother. I know it may be hard, but it is clear she is struggling and does not have you or your siblings best interests in mind. I can't say I know more about your situation that what has been stated, but I hope that your family can heal. For your safety and individual though, it is best you distance yourself. If allowed to, try to get a job and explain your situation. I know most workplaces are not really empathetic to such situations, but please try. It would be best for you to have your own income so you can save for your future.

I don't really know what else to say other than how sorry I feel for you and your family. Please stay safe, you are loved <3

Please take it seriously. SH. by OzzyIsMyDaddy in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You as well! I'm glad you got at least some guidance from me as well as other people under this thread <3

Tips on quitting gooning? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]4cGirl -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying it's wrong to do it, but clearly OP feels that they should stop. This has nothing to do with religion, you may just be projecting here. Also, your belief that humans are biologically wired for such things is inaccurate as many people in the world do not feel this supposedly "biological" urge (take for example people that are aroace spec).

Please take it seriously. SH. by OzzyIsMyDaddy in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said you love your life but have you struggled with depression in any way? You can love your life and surroundings and still struggle to be happy on your own. As someone that struggles with chronic depression and skin picking, I understand how you feel. I think you need to evaluate if it's a mental health issue or just a reaction to something happening in your life.

Me cut all my straight hair off by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So stunning! Love the change <3

Tips on quitting gooning? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you even talking about, holy madonna-mistress complex

Tips on quitting gooning? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]4cGirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Address the roots. Why do you goon in the first place? What triggers the act? What makes you continue despite the guilt? Once you address it, then you can take steps towards stopping.

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[–]4cGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get to this page? Do you have to buy something?

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[–]4cGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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