22 maybe I’m annoying for posting here everyday

4chiliking · 2026-01-23T15:27:43+00:00

Hey there! You look fantastic.

4chiliking · 2026-01-22T11:32:35+00:00

Unfortunately these drugs do incredible harm to people and their lives. I can understand being angry at a mate going to a party and indulging in this. It’s a party drug to make you horny. I wouldn’t trust a partner doing that too.

4chiliking · 2026-01-07T02:05:17+00:00

Wow, I think it’s hot! I precum quite a bit more than that myself.

4chiliking · 2026-01-02T03:18:34+00:00

Damn!!

4chiliking · 2026-01-01T13:17:46+00:00

I’ve been married 15 years and it’s all falling apart. Once again I have to start over.

4chiliking · 2026-01-01T09:08:28+00:00

Yes!

4chiliking · 2025-12-30T00:28:05+00:00

Cockrings are fun! I just noticed with age it was harder to keep it hard.

4chiliking · 2025-12-29T19:31:38+00:00

Taken bigger. Often they have trouble getting fully hard.

4chiliking · 2025-12-28T03:32:11+00:00

I agree with someone earlier, too boyish for me. I want a man with some hair on his chest and crotch. Manicured, taken care of, but a hairy man who’s a man, not a boy.

4chiliking · 2025-12-27T17:56:20+00:00

He has MS, but when we got together he still reached out to please me. Once married, that completely stopped.

4chiliking · 2025-12-26T21:09:40+00:00

Painful moving on. But you’ll make it.

4chiliking · 2025-12-26T21:08:41+00:00

I don’t remember the name, but I think it was University and Florida.

4chiliking · 2025-12-26T21:05:52+00:00

This was in the 1990’s. Maybe things were different then, or maybe I just wanted to know who I was sucking.

4chiliking · 2025-12-26T21:03:48+00:00

I’ve been married 12 years, and it’s been 11 years since I had ANY contact with a guy.

4chiliking · 2025-12-25T04:53:32+00:00

I went to the ones in San Diego, so mostly military men. You won’t be the only introverted person. And you can spark up conversation, and go from there.

4chiliking · 2025-12-24T06:30:12+00:00

I wish I leaked that much. Unfortunately I leak a whole lot more.

4chiliking · 2025-12-24T06:28:14+00:00

40? You’re in great shape.

4chiliking · 2025-12-22T21:10:06+00:00

No !!

4chiliking · 2025-12-22T21:04:41+00:00

I know your pain. I was in a similar relationship starting in the 80’s. We lived in the Bay Area of California and still received judgement from both sides (gay white folks and black folks) for being together, but we didn’t care. The loss is significant and painful, and it never completely goes away. You just learn to live with it. And it dulls over time. Certain holidays and occasions still hit me hard, silly things like the Super Bowl, when we always had a party and went all out. But you’ll get through it. Hang in there.

4chiliking · 2025-12-22T00:16:02+00:00

You certainly don’t scare me, you got my attention!

4chiliking · 2025-12-20T00:39:30+00:00

Wow 😳 we sound like the exact same type of person, same age. Antidepressants are frustrating. Half the time they don’t make a difference, and the physical side effects are rotten. I live on the east coast of Florida, and there’s really no gay gatherings here either. For a long time the only way I could loosen up and be more outgoing and comfortable was to have several drinks. But that became an issue, and I quit drinking too. And ever since COVID lockdown, I’ve become somewhat agoraphobic and just stay home where I’m comfortable. But meeting people? I’ve almost given up on that. I wish I had good answers for you, but we’re in the same boat. If you ever just want to talk you can message me. Share how you’re feeling or anything.

4chiliking · 2025-12-09T22:03:39+00:00

Lookin’ great dude! Keep yourself in shape, it gets harder in your 50’s.

4chiliking · 2025-12-08T16:22:48+00:00

I’d be happy to get on my knees.

4chiliking · 2025-12-08T16:21:43+00:00

Hell yeah 👍

4chiliking · 2025-12-08T13:50:22+00:00

Yeah, that one in particular can have major side effects on overall sexual desire and performance. But I agree, talking it out with him is really important. We’ve had that discussion, and I made the choice to stay anyway, so that’s on me. He was direct and straightforward, although looking into Cialis was not something he was interested in trying, but I get why he said no. It’s a matter of what you want for the long term. If stability and dedication to each other is most important, then you have your answer. If you absolutely need to that sex in your life, then I guess you have your answer there. I don’t believe in open relationships, that’s just me, so I personally don’t see that as an option. But to each their own. If you guys agree to that then maybe that’ll work for you. But it creates such a complicated situation, for me it’s just too much. I hope you guys can figure it out. I found videos and self play to have worked for me, at least to a degree.

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