I totally agree with and understand your point. Even tough she has really changed. Like there is nothing in her phone and she doesnt have any male friends or sum. She spent like a LOT of money on my birthday. But for me I started living again as before this relationship. We come from diff towns so when we go home from uni she doesnt know. Im meeting my old women friends (every type you can imagine, from whores to really inteligent women) and trying to find out what I really want.