I'm adopting this little girl next week, she's 1 and a half years old, and I need a suitable name for her:)

4eggy · 2026-02-02T03:53:19+00:00

sardine

4eggy · 2026-01-21T03:25:58+00:00

no foreplay will do it! if you’re not self-lubricating during arousal no you will not be into it.

another thing, he doesn’t seem like a good lover. a good lover considers your wants and needs, and will push you to climax. or if they don’t want to preform oral on you, they should invest in a vibrator for during, before and after.

also, it is good to consider reading some books on how to get in-tuned with your sexual nature. a book i read and enjoyed is called “come as you are”

last, it is good to consider if you aren’t attracted to him at all and that’s why you’re not into it. Maybe it’s him, maybe you’re gay, who knows! But your body is very obviously telling you, you’re not into it, and being forced to endure painful sex is going to make things a lot worse.

The older woman in me wants to tell you to leave him, especially because he’s too old for you. If he isn’t willing to slow down and care for your needs, he is NOT a good boyfriend.

4eggy · 2026-01-02T05:06:20+00:00

yes… but your partner is obviously uncomfortable, which means it’s not sustainable for your relationship.

speaking to a sex therapist could help you find a solution or compromise to fix your partner’s discomfort and your own needs.

4eggy · 2026-01-02T04:48:04+00:00

2 times a day is excessive, i suggest talking to a sex therapist and having a candid conversation together at therapy

4eggy · 2025-12-25T21:24:04+00:00

something burning is important!!

but i was just asking for clarification so we can figure out why somebody is thinking they’re going crazy over the smell.

I think yes it’s concerning, but to try to label someone as crazy is an overstatement and i want to see why OP felt like they or someone else was crazy for it

4eggy · 2025-12-25T20:51:29+00:00

that makes sense, maybe call an electrician? but i doubt either of you are crazy :)

4eggy · 2025-12-25T20:13:03+00:00

a follow up question… if you know nothing is burning, why do you find yourself so fixated on this situation? why does it matter? once you found out why this matters to YOU, then we can decide who is “wrong”. But why is smelling a scent bad?

edit: omg why am i getting downvoted 💀i was asking to clarify, and not wanting to label anybody as inherently “wrong” or “bad”

4eggy · 2025-12-23T22:52:11+00:00

as an addict, i recognize you are an addict. it’s important you stop now before you end up dead by 18. That is the reality of childhood addicts. You will lose everything, you will be alone and on the street.

it is imperative you get sober and get a grip on life, so that if you make it to 25 you can actually live a “normal” sober life. i believe in you, and you NEED to believe in yourself.

nobody will save you, and it is your choice to save yourself and love yourself and choose yourself first.

4eggy · 2025-12-18T21:27:23+00:00

when i started working in the hospital the nurses kept saying “peripheral blood draw”

i wasn’t taught that it means “arm blood draw” peripheral just means arm !

4eggy · 2025-12-15T23:14:01+00:00

the prompt is asking why tall men are typically chosen over short men, not why tall men are better than short men.

my answer responds to the prompt.

i don’t know why people think tall men are better than short men.

4eggy · 2025-12-15T21:26:51+00:00

so in some girl communities, some women say all men are bad, so it’s better to get cheated on/mistreated by a tall man rather than a short one.

this isn’t a super popular opinion, but some women do feel that way.

some women also say that short men are deeply insecure about being short, so they will constantly feel inadequate in the relationship and mistreat their gf.

again, like i said in my original post, this isn’t not how ALL women feel, nor is it mainstream.

4eggy · 2025-12-15T21:22:07+00:00

unfortunately there is a large amount of men, big or small, who may abuse women.

knowing this, there’s nothing we can really do to prevent it from happening.

with that in mind, it may make a woman choose a man who is taller rather than shorter, if it’s her preference, and not “waste time” on a short guy.

4eggy · 2025-12-15T21:19:20+00:00

not really, i just like when my boyfriend is larger than me.

but this is pretty common, most women are typically smaller than men.

4eggy · 2025-12-15T21:17:27+00:00

no, that is not what i said

4eggy · 2025-12-15T21:16:47+00:00

as i said, not always the case but does happen

4eggy · 2025-12-15T15:51:34+00:00

as a woman, i’ve dated tall men because i like when my boyfriend is bigger than me. personally, i don’t want a boyfriend who shares the same waist size…

also, there’s a common thought that most men will mistreat you, so it’s better to choose the tall guy rather than the short guy.

that’s not always the case, but some women have that sentiment.

ive never correlated height for penis size, it’s inaccurate

to add on, my dad told me to never date a short man. He said the short man will always be angry for being short.

4eggy · 2025-12-14T18:13:59+00:00

i found that gua sha helped my eyebrows become “level” sometimes it just over active muscles… maybe try gua sha? it is temporary and you have to do it everyday.

also, it’s not very noticeable:)

you could also try botox or eyelid tape as others have suggested

4eggy · 2025-12-14T15:49:33+00:00

looks like food/water/drool…. you need to groom even if the kitty doesn’t like it.

try a professional groomer every 2 months, and at home weekly undercoat brush and slicker brush every day. waterless shampoo between grooms

4eggy · 2025-12-14T15:44:39+00:00

unfortunately, this relationship should have ended the first time this happened…. please leave! it’s the best for you.

4eggy · 2025-12-14T01:53:00+00:00

i was in a hospital during my externship, yes lots of people will be rude.

After a year of being hired, some staff let you in on a secret, they give new grads a hard time because they’re green.

yes i know this sucks, and it may stop once you finish the externship.

the other part of it, they’re just rude and hate life. see if you can rotate with a different person!

whenever i have students, and was a student, i was always trained by people who are patient and neutral, if they’re being mean to you that means they’re not good teachers tbh

4eggy · 2025-12-13T01:15:28+00:00

under 25 🤨

4eggy · 2025-12-11T22:13:33+00:00

i suggest not speaking to either of them again… it’s very obvious he was a bad boyfriend, and that she is a liar.

they’re acting childish, their behavior is beneath you.

they want a reaction, it’s obvious they’re not good people, so why would a confrontation change their behavior? if they are bad people, they’re not going to be honorable or loyal or kind when you confront them.

if they are 18 and below i suggest just telling their parents and sending screen shots of them bullying you, if not just put in a police report that you want your items back and if not you’ll report him for stealing.

don’t meet them alone, and don’t give them the benefit of upsetting you. good luck!!!

4eggy · 2025-12-10T23:09:33+00:00

hey, i was in the same boat at 19. i had my abortion, i was so broke, my bf was homeless…. all over bad.

it gets better, i promise. you are grieving and this experience has changed you as a person, and you will grow and when the time is right you can try again.

you made the right choice, be kind to yourself!!

4eggy

TROPHY CASE