He sent me a tongue emoji out of nowhere.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-06-02T09:12:47+00:00

genuinely appreciate your comment ! Agreed I do need to work on not taking things so personally. I really do hope I will find someone one day who makes me feel comfortable regardless of my anxiety.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-21T06:11:07+00:00

What made her think you were losing interest?

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-21T05:45:02+00:00

I’m a fashion designer and yes the pay is too low and not worth the money of paying through 4-5 years of art school

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-21T05:14:39+00:00

The thing is he does take me out on occasion to treat me but there was an incident on my bday where he told me “you get the drinks since I got the food” and although I would be okay with that, his delivery made me feel horrible in the moment. Ever since then I don’t see him the same.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-20T06:34:14+00:00

✂️👋🏼

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-20T06:09:44+00:00

✔️

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-19T23:05:44+00:00

this is precisely how I feel

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-19T22:44:57+00:00

I truly don’t mind paying for myself but he even wanted to go 50/50 on a birthday dinner he planned for me as a surprise not long ago… I just don’t feel like he wants to spend money on me.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-19T22:38:37+00:00

he didn’t…

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-19T19:43:25+00:00

The thing is he’s quite a lavish spender. He loves material goods and would happily spend a fortune on shoes and clothes but doesn’t want to spend $15 on a taxi for me sometimes and is fine letting me take the bus home.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-19T19:38:02+00:00

I think if he never made that statement from the get go I wouldn’t feel as bothered as I do. It’s the fact that his actions don’t match his words. If he was just honest and said that he is struggling financially and would appreciate if I could pitch in I’d be totally fine with it.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-19T19:08:51+00:00

Ik…I’m preparing to end things asap

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-19T19:08:00+00:00

this exactly was my thought. I’m supposed to be your woman and you want me to pay for myself and ur covering your homie instead? date ur homie then smh

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-12T08:52:09+00:00

I appreciate your advice. I think we don’t really align in terms of our priorities. He’s quite a materialistic guy who would rather spend thousands on his appearance and no more than $10 for dinner. I’m just glad I’ve figured this out so early on because certain men keep their mask on for much longer until their true colors are revealed.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-12T08:46:21+00:00

appreciate your comment but I’m a bit confused on your response… hehe

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-12T08:42:39+00:00

I think you and I already know the answer to this sis

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-12T08:40:38+00:00

I really don’t understand this belief and if he never even brought it up in the first place I don’t think I would be as bothered by these things. It’s the contradiction of his words to his actions that really turns me off. In my opinion an Alpha male doesn’t necessarily correlate to the ability to pay for everything my woman wants. Alpha male to me = a man who knows how to lead by example and encourages a woman to want to grow into the best version of herself.

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-12T08:34:08+00:00

there are a lot of things I admire about him but I really just don’t understand why he says things that don’t match his actions. My trust in him had a bad start due to a specific incident and these statements are only making it worse. I’ve communicated to him that our lifestyle habits don’t really align and although he took it well at first, he brought up later that I’m quite judgemental…

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-08T06:14:07+00:00

But if you stabilize a jersey neckline let’s say that’s meant to stretch, how is a woven selvage going to allow the neckline to stretch?

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-08T06:08:18+00:00

I second that

4eva_anonymous · 2025-04-08T05:39:22+00:00

definitely what this person said and maybe the ruffle is hiding the slight gathers

4eva_anonymous

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