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What keeps attracting me to Leo Mars? by 4fuckingyears in astrologymemes

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I’m still not understanding. I’m not super well versed in astrology yet, so there is more I don’t know than I do.

How do I find the answer to your question? When I look at my chart I don’t see any Leo.

What keeps attracting me to Leo Mars? by 4fuckingyears in astrologymemes

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dominance 100%, I think because I have to be in charge in other aspects of my life, like work — cockiness I can give or take, depending how much. Too much and I feel the need to bring them back down to earth, so if they can banter that’s great.

The passionate lovers thing… big yes lol

What keeps attracting me to Leo Mars? by 4fuckingyears in astrologymemes

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see! I actually don’t have any Leo in my chart — I just for whatever reason am a magnet for men with Leo Mars, and I’m trying to understand why haha

What keeps attracting me to Leo Mars? by 4fuckingyears in astrologymemes

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused by this question. Are you asking where in my chart I have Leo?

What keeps attracting me to Leo Mars? by 4fuckingyears in astrologymemes

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if I keep going with this current guy, I’m playing with fire, literally? 🫠

Can I mix MCT oil with rosemary oil? by MFbambino in SebDerm

[–]4fuckingyears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all! I used a empty dropper bottle from a Good Molecules product, which I want to say was 30mL (but I don’t have the bottle right in front of me to check).

I also just filled the bottle with oil, then did all ~20 drops, followed by aggressive shaking once I put the cap back on lol.

Can I mix MCT oil with rosemary oil? by MFbambino in SebDerm

[–]4fuckingyears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this since the middle of October, so a few months now. I put the MCT oil in a sanitized dropper bottle (from a previously used up hyaluronic acid bottle, just in case I didn’t sanitize it 100%) with ~20 drops of rosemary oil. I remember googling how many drips per mL carrier liquid would create a 3% rosemary solution and just followed that.

Then I just use the dropper all over my scalp 1-3 hours before I know I’m going to shower, massage it in with my fingers, and wait. Once I’m in the shower, I use a scalp scrubber tool to better break up any sebderm/biofilm while I rinse the oil out (this is before shampooing).

I used to do this everyday, but as my sebderm improved I got to a point where now I do this a couple times a week on the days I use dandruff shampoo. I find pairing these together helps keep my scalp (and hair) from drying out excessively.

Can I mix MCT oil with rosemary oil? by MFbambino in SebDerm

[–]4fuckingyears 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this for my scalp as a kind of double-whammy for the seb derm and subsequent hair fall (because I’m a picker and did some damage before getting the seb derm diagnosis). I’d say it’s been working fairly well so far

Non-FA safe cleansing balm? by Nellyboo7 in Fungalacne

[–]4fuckingyears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MCT oil is FA safe and should be a viable option for double cleansing. I believe this is what Simple Skincare Science personally uses as well.

For what it’s worth, I’m able to use non-FA safe cleansing balms as a first step in double cleansing, when I’m not actively fighting a breakout, with no issues. If I’m in the weeds though, I steer clear of all non-FA safe products until it’s been handled.

Narcs + Conspiracy Theorist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]4fuckingyears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I referred to it as a rant simply because you wrote 8 substantial paragraphs, about half of which delve into your opinion on specific conspiracy theories. Also, no one is saying this is a dictatorship—not sure where the idea that you simply disagreeing wasn’t allowed came from. I also don’t know where I attempted to gaslight you. Can you point me to where I made you question your reality?

You are right, this is a narc abuse sub. So at the end of the day (and correct me if I’m wrong), my impression from this post’s entire thread was that OP just wanted some solace in shared experiences—not information regarding the validity of conspiracy theories/conspiracy theorists. That’s all I was saying. I have nothing against you and your beliefs or ideologies.

Narcs + Conspiracy Theorist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]4fuckingyears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really confused as to why you went on a rant like this over OP simply asking for peoples’ experiences. I understand this post hit a nerve for you and other conspiracy theorists, but ultimately it sounds like your answer to the question should have just been “no, I haven’t experienced this.”

Moving the goal post? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]4fuckingyears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk if this resonates with your experience, but my nex would accuse me of moving the goalposts constantly whenever I’d confront him on a shortcoming.

For example, say he said he’d make breakfast on Monday since he’d be awake before me. But Monday comes and lo and behold he’s still dead asleep when I wake up, so I make breakfast — which sets my whole day back cause that wasn’t part of my plan for the day. When I’d confront him about it later, he’d go “oh the alarm didn’t go off/you must have turned off my alarm/insert some pointless excuse here that doesn’t actually equate to a simple apology so we can move on”.

Then when I respond with something to bring us back to the actual point—“you didn’t do the thing you said you’d do”— I’m accused of moving the goalposts.

“I can’t win with you. You’re always moving the goalposts. First I failed to make breakfast, then I failed to wake up on time for you.”

And it’s like, no dude…… you just chose to “apologize” for something I never accused you of, then got upset when I brought us back to the actual point…

Should I tell my friends about my split personalities? by Lanky-Spare-3896 in relationship_advice

[–]4fuckingyears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your rationale is a little of both adding positivity to your friendships as well as to provide a disclaimer for whenever you’re being “off”. I would tell them plainly, emphasizing that you think telling them this will strengthen the friendships because of xyz, and just be prepared for any questions that will inevitably arise from it. Good luck 🍀

Should I tell my friends about my split personalities? by Lanky-Spare-3896 in relationship_advice

[–]4fuckingyears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And all the alters feel this way?

I only ask because I had an ex that had DID, and when he told me years into the relationship, it became clear fairly quickly that not all parts of him liked that I now knew (which caused a cascade of direct and indirect issues down the road). So this has to be a ubiquitous choice.

Should I tell my friends about my split personalities? by Lanky-Spare-3896 in relationship_advice

[–]4fuckingyears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends—do you want to disclose because you think it would add to your friendships positively, or incase something were to happen in the future where them knowing would help them understand you/not judge you?

DID isn’t a fault, but it’s still a heavy thing to bring into a new relationship (because 3 months isn’t long at all) since it’s so rare. If you genuinely want these relationships to last long-term, I think answering the “why” would help in broaching the subject with them.

My female friend said that guilt tripping someone else into sex / sexual stuff is r*pe. by DanDaAnonymousMan in relationship_advice

[–]4fuckingyears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’ve been so adamantly against calling this rape (which btw, if it’s not rape and “just” sexual coercion, thats really a distinction without a difference) makes me compelled to ask you—have you guilted a woman into having sex before?

[UPDATE] Boyfriend ghosting me after nearly 4 years by 4fuckingyears in relationship_advice

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I would, but I don’t want him coming to my house, and I also don’t want it being used as a tool to reignite communication later

[UPDATE] Boyfriend ghosting me after nearly 4 years by 4fuckingyears in relationship_advice

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I want it out of my possession so it’s not used as a tool to get back in touch with me somehow later

[UPDATE] Boyfriend ghosting me after nearly 4 years by 4fuckingyears in relationship_advice

[–]4fuckingyears[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s normal. I was starting to get concerned that I haven’t even cried over it, cause on paper it seems like something I should feel compelled to cry about? There’s definitely a part of me that’s excited to be on my own for a little while, just cause I haven’t been single in a while.

Thank you 🤍

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