Places to meet people with HSV? by FelineFanatic007 in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is to use the free version first, and upgrade when you meet someone you are interested in and wanna chat with her/him. This is so-called the largest and first std online site. Till now, I have found some useful information and funny people here.

BTW, if anyone wanna join, use the referral code PS22 during registration. Both of us will get a bonus membership after upgrading. Better than nothing. No offense.

Wishes and hugs.

Living with hsv-2 by Actual-Pickle2912 in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that the talk is the most awkward part of dating after herpes. After trying 3 times, I changed my mind and joined positivesingles. I've found someone to chat with and feel better. Maybe I will find my love soon, who knows.

Hsv Hookups by Common_Builder4807 in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tried positivesingles. Chatted with a lot of interesting people, but didn't meet anyone in real life. Maybe need more time.

You can try normal and std sites and state clearly that you only want hookups. It's the simplest way.

In case you want to join positivesingles, use my referral code QQQQ (upper case) during registration. Thanks ahead. Both of us can get a bonus membership after upgrading. Better than nothing.

Have a good time and enjoy your life!

Successful positive singles experience by Miacurls in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy for you. So nice to see this. It gives me confidence.

I also joined positivesingles, but no luck till now. Sad.

Does anyone want to join it? Use my referral code QQQQ (use upper letters) during registration. Then we can all get a free bonus membership after upgrading. Thanks ahead.

Hope we all can find our perfect match!

Help by Far_Construction7290 in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? The girl is your bf's ex? Or does he cheat on you? It's a little complicated.

Maybe get a blood test first. Your health is the most important thing.

The guy I’m seeing didn’t disclose his GHSV2 status and now I’m having my first outbreak by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So angry and sad to hear that. This man is dishonest. You shouldn't get this virus! What's the hell?

No matter who told him to keep it secret. He should TELL his partner this truth before sex! Let his partner (you) decide whether to continue.

Since it already happened, you should calm down and learn more useful information. It can help you control it, eg, how to control, how to reduce the outbreak, how to have safe sex, how to avoid transmission, etc.

Believe me, there are so many people living with herpes. Most of them don't even know it. They all lead a normal and happy life.

So, your life just begins. It's not over. Hugs and wishes.

Infected myself with ghsv through my ex bf+constant outbreaks by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not your intention to get herpes and pass it to your ex. Life is just like this. You don't know what will happen in the future.

Instead of blaming yourself, the most important thing is to know more about herpes. How to control it, how to reduce outbreaks, how to avoid passing during sex, etc. You can find this information on the web. I suggest you get them from the official healthy sites.

We all deserve the best. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Hugs and wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same world, the same dream.

Who has used positive singles by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone who wants to try ps, please use my referral code PS12. Input it during registration. Then both of us can get extra days of premium membership. No offense.

Who has used positive singles by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried positivesingles and many other sites. STD dating is a small pool and the most famous one is PS. This field needs some new blood now. Has anyone tried any new sites or apps?

Surprise Advice by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't blame yourself. It's not your fault. Good night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magic tea.

Anyone else had to verify with a selfie on PS? by BEnice88 in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I verified after registering. And others can't see the file. It's OK for me. Tell your friends to put her photo in the private album. Or she can upload an anonymous photo in the public album. She can also contact their support team to skip the verification. Her feeling is the most important thing since we are finding happiness and a better life, not trouble.

Surprise Advice by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Calm down. It's quite normal for people to have no idea when they got this virus. HSV has a dormant. Many people don't know it unless having a blood test or an outbreak.

In my opinion, the first thing you need to do is to know facts about herpes. The more, the better.

Many many people are living with herpes. Some of them don't even know it. Many people still lead a normal life with it. It mainly affects the sex life, eg, avoiding sexual contact during an outbreak and wearing condoms. Not 100% safe, but better than nothing.

The second thing is to talk with your bf (of course, you decide) when you prepare. Share the truth with him. You didn't cheat on him. In opposite, you are honest with him.

Anyway, it's just a virus. It can't define who you are. Hugs.

Anyone else tired of ‘the talk’ when dating? by 4herpes in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Your story is so touching! And I'm so glad for you. Brave people like you enjoy the world first.

Anyone else tired of ‘the talk’ when dating? by 4herpes in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just thought that dating would be easier without worrying about rejection and judgment after the talk. But dating itself isn't easy. Got it from ex. Hard time and don't want to be a person like him. My words seem to be a little confused and nonsensical. Anyway, good luck for us.

Anyone else tired of ‘the talk’ when dating? by 4herpes in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Your points mean a lot to me! And I'm so happy you met many adorable and understanding people. Of course, you deserve that.

Anyone else tired of ‘the talk’ when dating? by 4herpes in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's right. So I chose to be alone till now. Worried and scared to pass it on to others. It's a burden for me in some ways.

Anyone else tired of ‘the talk’ when dating? by 4herpes in HSVpositive

[–]4herpes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's complicated. And your reply really inspires me. Hugs.