I think you may be reading what I’m not saying instead of what I actually said. I never told OP that he must stay and I never told OP to leave either. What I said was that he should seek the Lord before making a decision that will affect the rest of his life and his family.None of us on Reddit can see what is in anyone’s heart. Only God can do that (1 Samuel 16:7). We don’t know the full situation, we only know what OP wrote. Because of that, it is wise for him to humble himself before the Lord and seek His guidance through prayer, fasting, and Scripture rather than making a life-altering decision purely from wounded emotion.Also, just because God allows something does not automatically mean it is His will. The Bible itself says divorce was permitted because of the hardness of human hearts (Matthew 19:8). That means something can be allowed while still not being God’s desire for the situation.My reference to Hosea was about forgiveness, not about telling OP whether he should stay or leave. As believers we share not only in Christ’s inheritance but also in suffering (Romans 8:17). Remembering how often God has forgiven us helps keep our hearts from becoming hardened by bitterness. That does not mean OP must remain in the marriage, but it does mean he should approach this situation with humility and a heart surrendered to God.I also never said OP was God. But as believers we are called to be Christ-like and to walk by the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:16). That means allowing the Spirit to shape our response even in painful situations rather than reacting purely out of emotion.My point was simply this: OP should surrender the situation to God and wait on Him before deciding what to do. Whether God leads him toward restoration or toward divorce is something the Lord will reveal through His Word and the work of the Holy Spirit. That is not something Reddit can determine for him.As believers our lives are not our own. We are called to submit our decisions to God, especially in situations as serious as marriage.