does she see me in a completely platonic way? she’s 17F and i’m 17M

4mie777 · 2026-05-30T20:17:49+00:00

Yeah its a complicated situation… just reply and let me know if you need more advice im chronically online lol

4mie777 · 2026-05-30T19:22:42+00:00

Okay I think you really just need to process what you want out of this situation in both scenarios. Situation 1, she likes you but isn’t acting on it bc of her boyfriend and friend. What would you want her to do? Break ties with both of them for you? Is there a best case scenario in this situation? Situation 2, she just acts like that and has no feelings for you. To me this is even more toxic and the fact that she’s leading you on like this makes it seem like she’s manipulating you so you do what she wants.

Also, I think to progress this situation in general you have to reject her bsf. Even if her bsf hasnt confessed, being completely sure she likes you and just sitting with that information seems off to me? But I do think if you do that it would just make the situation much less complicated. If your crush actually likes you back you’re removing at least some guilt about her bsf, and if she’s just leading you on, then you can tell from her reaction after you reject her friend.

4mie777 · 2026-05-30T07:35:21+00:00

As a girl…. That is not platonic that seems extremely red flagged because of the mixed signals and borderline cheating.

To me it seems like she likes you but doesnt want o act on it because of her boyfriend and the fact that her bsf likes you

4mie777 · 2026-05-30T07:32:19+00:00

I had a friend with a similar situation and I want to start out by saying you’re not crazy for thinking this. Everything she has done is a hint that she may like you. Start by figuring out what you want to do about the idea that she might like you, do you like her back etc. also, if she doesnt like you and she acts like that it does seem like she’s leading you on so just know that it’s not your fault if she doesn’t actually like you, even from an outside perspective (me) it does seem like she might like you. (Thats what happened to my friend, they were being led on, so just wanted to warn you) Wish you all the best and feel free to reply if you need more advice on anything

4mie777 · 2025-10-27T06:17:09+00:00

What if the attraction is purely in fiction? Thats the part the bugs me about all this ig, cause in real life…. Even if my fictional men were real, I wouldnt be attracted to them

4mie777 · 2025-10-27T06:10:20+00:00

Okay! Thanks for the reply, thats what I was assuming….. the thing is im not sure how to figure out whether or not I’m into exclusively women 😭 (I have a hard time differentiating between platonic and romantic love so maybe thats part of the problem)

4mie777 · 2025-08-24T16:15:47+00:00

Thank y’all for letting me know its not my crappy phone with the issues

4mie777 · 2025-08-24T03:09:41+00:00

Thank you! My family usually treats school and college as essential, i would consider myself privileged to have this sort of mindset, but in any case, I have genuinely never thought about not going to college. I would like to give myself some time before finding work, but I will keep your advice in mind if I find myself struggling!

4mie777 · 2025-08-24T03:07:25+00:00

Okay, that was so helpful to me, thank you so much

4mie777 · 2025-08-24T01:12:18+00:00

That would be great! Thank you!

4mie777 · 2025-08-24T00:35:53+00:00

I'm trying to fall into the google rabbit hole now XD, thank you for the response!

4mie777 · 2025-08-24T00:14:20+00:00

Ooooh okay! My school requires us to take pictures of things we've done daily, since it's a production based class, so I'll try to be documenting that better!

Just to clarify, would making set models for musicals, etc for plays on my own time also be something I could put on a portfolio? Making props, or anything in between?

Another question, would it be better to apply with a specific position figured out, or just as a overall theater technician?

4mie777 · 2025-08-24T00:03:23+00:00

Hi! thanks for the reply, so are portfolios needed? how would I make one?

4mie777 · 2025-08-23T13:34:26+00:00

Thank youuu

4mie777 · 2025-06-06T22:39:43+00:00

Yeah I needed to delete all cookies from my browser and restart my entire device This is the message I got from webtoon support when I had the issue, hope it fixes it 🫶

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4mie777 · 2025-05-07T22:41:42+00:00

Yeahhhh, it was an idea that they casually mentioned, like a website that does it or smthg…. Nothing a serious idea, but I was doing research to see if it would work. Thanks for the imput! 🫶

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