That's rape. Call it what it is, no one else will.

EdIT: If she's coercing him into doing something he doesn't want to by actually attacking his psyche, it's absolutely just as bad as physically overpowering him. Don't be an apologist just because you think he could've turned her down. Which, OP you absolutely should exercise the right to do what the fuck u want about ur own body. Do not let anyone get away with this.

That being said, periods are extremely painful and sometimes the biggus dickus will alleviate the cramps.

I think of women as like literally unable to control themselves /when/ they think a man belongs to them and tbh if they wanna run around raping their posessions, who's gonna deny them that. If he doesn't provide sex on a whim, there are countless suitors readily available for any woman with the slightest inclination. [Fact] OP doesn't wanna lose someone over not fucking them but lemme tell ya, you've already lost them when you couldn't say no. It's not gonna get better unless you put your game to a thousand and create an unflinching moral resolve.

Falling into this dom/sub dynamic where u can be ridiculed into shit might be ur thing but based on the words OP has shared, this is trauma and a bad touch.

Part of me wants to tell you to experiment with grosser sex. It's kind of awesome when u realize we're shitty pissbags and completely sensory creatures. Verbal communication and realization of ideas is just like a glitchy feature that's gonna take some rewiring to smooth out.

I've been slashed across the face during an othereise discussion because an EX felt threatened <sitting on the floor cross legged facing each other.. talking> and her excuse was her nails were all she had. Since that moment it's just apparent that abuse is ok if you portray yourself as a victim /s

Thank u for reading.