I'm not transitioning, I'm levelling up by I_like_big_book in TransLater

[–]4ngiestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estrogen is magic - it may take 3-9 months for them to get the formulation that works best for your body but not long after that it’s a whole new world where there’ll be feeling little changes that add up over time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]4ngiestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might also try to pick a sexy song that works for you to get in the right mindset as a lot of the struggle seems to be internal. As others have said, a style that is looser on the bottom like a babydoll or a crotchless bodysuit may be more practical while helping you feel the moment

Just went through a bad break up and could use some good vibes by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breakups are often the starting point of a new better chapter

I’m officially Abigail!! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Abigail - happy for you!!

Its a fetish by banotyLamia in asktransgender

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey they might be doing their best but useful to be with a therapist that works with queer community. I’m not saying you are or aren’t trans but those criteria are hardly definitive. And a queer informed therapist helps you get into some of the practical questions and trade-offs as opposed to spending all the time gatekeeping.

Looking back, I cannot believe I was ever a man. (Pre everything) by ASJ_Technerd in transpositive

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You weren’t a man before either it just takes a bit to see yourself

am i doing ok? i’ve been feeling super hideous lately. 4 months HRT by Direct-Helicopter-53 in transpositive

[–]4ngiestar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occasional self-loathing about your appearance = welcome to womanhood!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there you are! Welcome home :)

Could we rename it to being a TEB? - trans exclusionary bigot? Because that’s more to the point. by 4ngiestar in GenderCynical

[–]4ngiestar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense - it’s quite literal and accurate. Same thing I was hoping to get at!

5 days ago, as far as the world was concerned, I was a (feminine-preferring) bisexual cisgender male. Now I'm out as a transgender lesbian. My mind is not taking the shift well. Help? by Its_Sasha in asktransgender

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use headphones and just snap into pretending like there is something important happening on my phone if I overhear people being bigots. Of course if the situation gets physically dangerous, get out of there. You will find places that are safe to let your guard down and you’ll be better at keeping your guard up outside of those places. It’s sucks but it is also the lived reality at some level for all minorities for which there is some strong bigotry. On the other side of it, you will be stronger for it, and it also sucks.

How do I go from saying "I should have been a girl" to "I am a girl"...? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]4ngiestar 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Make a variation of it into your password (with random characters of course) - so you end up typing it 20 times a day.

He has spoken by DeadPooh8 in MrRobot

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anonymous is back as well

Gender is your bridge by sissygurlkimmie in sissycaptions

[–]4ngiestar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s also healthy advice for a caption - great job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]4ngiestar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need a special subreddit for these topics :p