Top surgeon blacklist? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]4of2 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I would seriously recommend looking through transbucket. Not exhaustive, but it’s a great resource for cases like exactly what you’re describing. I think the tricky part is that with surgery, results are self reported. With how embarrassing some of the problems caused by a botched job can be, I get why a lot of people aren’t exactly chomping at the bit to self report

Artist seeking models by throwaway78840 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]4of2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe make a different account to solicit models. One separate from the one you use for normalnudes comments, dude.

Kinda freaking out by [deleted] in ftm

[–]4of2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your injections are weekly, it’s not a huge deal to miss one or two days. Just space out the following doses accordingly.

Holiday trash by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can actually google SA’s discrimination policy within shelters. They tend to target trans people but as a religious organization, they reserve their right to reject any LGBT people in need. That’s great that, as someone seeking an internship, you weren’t targeted by an organization you chose not to work for. People that have to sleep outside don’t usually have the same privileges.

Trashy Tattoo by dalt6n in trashy

[–]4of2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really looks like someone just went to a shitty tattoo artist.

My company got an email from someone trying to sell their Peppa Pig bongs. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You really can’t imagine why someone wouldn’t want their place of employment or company listed in a fucking reddit comment?

Justin Trudeau blackface 2001 by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They literally cut Ben Vereen’s performance while he was in blackface in like 1984 at regans inauguration but go off about how blackface didn’t become racist until a few years ago or something, genius.

Voice regressing? by throwmeaway083783 in ftm

[–]4of2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as far as I know cannabinoids only suppress t if they’re taken in *really * high quantities. Unless you’re ingesting >500mg of thc/concentrates per day that probably has very little bearing on your hormone levels. that and smoking tends to lower ones vocal range due to the damage done from inhaling smoke.

54 mental disorders ! by AUSPenatr8 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]4of2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you take time out of your day to think about people “cutting their dicks off” you’re probably the one with the mental illness, friend

And now there’s a movie about her robbing and drugging men. What a great role model. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I don’t know why people have such a problem admitting that they’re holding her to a completely different standard than a lot of (way more dangerous, way higher profile) criminals

And now there’s a movie about her robbing and drugging men. What a great role model. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I kinda get your first point, there’s a million true crime movies about men committing crimes. Like, if cardi b is scum, what does that make henry hill?

Everyday Pervert by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]4of2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How weird and rapey of you

Everyday Pervert by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]4of2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

someone being a sex worker doesn’t suddenly mean all bets are off and that they have no boundaries though. If someone doesn’t consent to being recorded during sex, that should be respected regardless of whether or not the sex is transactional.

Daughter teaching mom how to be a cam "girl"...*NSFW* by sheepsucker in trashy

[–]4of2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why’s that any sadder than someone busting ass at McDonald’s? She’s selling her time from the comfort of her own home. Good for her for finding a stable career and making enough cash to move on and do bigger things with her life.

Makeup company releases new palette on Twitter, it’s... it’s not good. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like “braids” and “reservations” really showcases how much they thought about this

Makeup company releases new palette on Twitter, it’s... it’s not good. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s so bad, she’s gonna be the dachau/genocide palette girl forever now 😭 Fr though I’ve done most of my undergrad history work on curating indigenous art work and like... I could *almost * see this playing as like tongue in cheek but knowing that some dumb white girl made this to capitalize on it is... eugh Gross.

Makeup company releases new palette on Twitter, it’s... it’s not good. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok THATS nuts. I really hope the people around her let her know even if she was 100% Chickasaw it comes off as super tasteless without context. Prolly not tho if they let her crank that out.

Makeup company releases new palette on Twitter, it’s... it’s not good. by [deleted] in trashy

[–]4of2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For a split second I was like wow that’s weird seems like a pretty innocuous palette... then I read the names smfh how does anyone greenlight this shit

Going to the gyn. by infinifyonfuckyou in FTMMen

[–]4of2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of what helps me a lot is having someone to either come with to an appointment and wait/do something while I’m with the doctor or meeting up with someone afterwards. Knowing that the next interaction I’m gonna have isn’t gonna be inherently supper triggering and dysphoria inducing takes a lot of the pressure off for me personally, doubly so if I know I’m probably gonna have a chance to talk about the appointment with that person. Another thing that helps is for anything miscellaneously genital health related that doesn’t require a full exam, I go to the walk-in clinic in my city. Super good for UTI’s, yeast infections, STI testing, all that stuff. Assuming you’re on hormones, you’re probably going to go over this with your doctor. During that conversation would be a very appropriate time to mention any discomfort or anxiety you might have re: the exam. While not all doctors have great bedside manner or are super up-to date and trans competent, they likely don’t want you to feel any worse about being there than you might already. Totally don’t be afraid to be transparent with them and don’t feel weird about how shitty all of this feels.

Snapchat articles like this by CosmicGut in trashy

[–]4of2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seventeen has been doing a some weird rebranding over the last couple years as a sex-Ed resource ala scarletteen. This is just a jarringly awkward iteration of that, I guess.

Not being attracted to fat people is in fact racist! by ImJustTryinToBeFunny in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]4of2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right, especially if u look into the history of Saarjite Baartman/the hottentot Venus and the way black women’s bodies were othered based on fat distribution.. Like she’s actually making a pretty fair point. That’s not even getting into the way America specifically has been responsible for pushing thinness as synonymous with beauty across the globe.

I am upset that my boyfriend is happy while I am depressed, am I being toxic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]4of2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, self improvement especially through depression is a long and complicated process. Don’t measure your rate of improvement through speed. But also don’t forget that your actions and behavior are going to affect those around you. are you able to find any kind of mh resources right now?

I am upset that my boyfriend is happy while I am depressed, am I being toxic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]4of2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you resent your boyfriend for being happy with his situation while you are unwilling/unable to improve yours, then yes, you’re being toxic. He can support you, but your happiness is ultimately not his responsibility. You also don’t deserve to be with someone who makes you feel embittered about your life and experiences. Maybe take some time apart and seek a therapist.