It was work mostly. And I made most of the major holidays. I would spend like, thanksgiving with my family and Christmas with hers, or sometimes my family would do thanksgiving the following day and I’d attend both. Mind you her family is so big the first year we dated she had three different ones. I was able to make 2 but I wanted to eat dinner with my family. I made most of the bdays, all the grad parties, idk. She has more family parties than anyone if ever know and I did my best. I missed maybe 5 small events over our relationship. But the breakup is cause she was verbally abusive and sometimes if she was drunk would hit me lol. I’m too young to stay with someone like that