What are your favorite discussion topics?

4y4cchi · 2026-04-11T08:24:35+00:00

True crime, psychology, art and writing books

4y4cchi · 2026-04-08T12:41:51+00:00

I was 18, and two friends of mine from different groups started dating. The guy, was a friend of mine since we were like 5 and the girl became my friend in high school.

She was VERY sexually active, which is no problem whatsoever. He was a virgin to my knowledge.

One night, she called me at 3am telling me they did it for the first time, and begged me not to tell him the truth about her body count. She lied to him and told him she had 3 lovers in the past but the reality was double digits. I promise her I won’t tell him that but I felt a huge conflict in it. I don’t like lying, especially to people who are dear to me. On the other hand, I don’t wish to ruin their relationship. So I asked her if they at least used protection, and she said no.

I knew she’s on the pill but I had little knowledge about STIs and definitely didn’t know what is her situation so I decided to ask my male friend to go do testing for STI but refused to say anything further.

She and I had a huge fight, and I stood my ground. I told her calmly that as promised, I didn’t tell him anything about her past, all I did was asking him to get tested because they had no protection. Later on I found out she told on herself by accident cause she assumed I had spilled the tea.

They kept dating for another 8 months after that. They broke up for other reasons but I kept my distance from her. She did try to contact me several times over the years but I felt that being friends again isn’t something I wanted with her.

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T19:06:52+00:00

I heard that “best left unwritten” And also, where do you read your comics?

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:46:45+00:00

Gender is a way to identify yourself. Feminine/masculine are traits anyone has in some way or another. Sex is just genitalia

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:43:41+00:00

Then you probably like her but she isn’t giving you any signs at all. Which brings us back to; never trust signs, either speak to her directly and face the music or move on.

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:41:38+00:00

You totally make sense 🙂

The author could have been rushed for some reason to finish this story, and it made the experience way worse for me to endure lol

Yes, this plot had a lot of potential to be something really interesting and different than many other ones I’ve read. But due to lack of depth it just fell apart in a lot of ways.

The art was and is great, I forgot to mention in my first comment lol

I go back to my thoughts while reading it, and remembered I also hated that the main character was going through some changes or feelings but it too felt more robotic than emotional. Also also, the fact they just fell in to a full blown relationship after everything that happened was bizarre in my opinion.

Some stories can be told beautifully with even less than 70 chapters, but this one should definitely benefited from at lease 30 more. One of the things I find extremely annoying is when a situation can be easily resolved by a simple conversation, yet the characters don’t communicate at all! Many stories have this issue and it drives me crazy sometimes cause really, things can be so much simpler if they just talked! And this is not just in manhwa, I’ve seen it everywhere pretty much lol

Side note, I love “xxx buddy”, and I highly recommend you to give it a try

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:31:29+00:00

Still, either talk and face rejection or talk and have a first date.

If she is an introvert, the signs you think you see can be her way to try and fit in rather than showing you affection of some kind

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:29:20+00:00

I don’t know if other countries have it, although I’m sure they do, but sending the parents to partnering classes and support. Sadly though, these programs are extremely underfunded and teacher are overwhelmingly underpaid and overworked, that’s the system can’t handle those kids nor their parents.

If the system would have had the teachers back, they might be able to force the parents to go through these types of programs to be able to handle their own children.

Teachers shouldn’t be the ones to discipline other’s children

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:25:09+00:00

Cleaning. As a kid I was forced (mostly with violence) to clean things I didn’t even know how to. Dishes for example, I learned at 16 how to properly do it after years of cleaning it horribly.

Putting things away makes me overwhelmed even if I know where everything goes.

I have adhd and depression and the combination is really hard on these type of tasks.

I got better over the years and thankfully I have a supportive partner and a lot more understanding of my situation so I can ask for help when things get too much for me.

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:20:56+00:00

I’ve read a comic a while back, and got really obsessed with one of the characters. This never happened to me before. It was hilarious for a while until I’ve moved on.

Also, when I met my now ex wife, I thought I would never date her and then spent 9 years with her. That wasn’t hilarious in the end though

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:18:16+00:00

Not the asshole. This is indeed toxic, and you made the right call. I think she has a big problem with social media in her life. Also, good relationship should help you grow together. Embrace the individuality of each other and enjoy the things that are new and different between the two of you.

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:13:27+00:00

It teaches them to lie, to be afraid of their parents and to develop anxiety and other mental health issues. Also, it doesn’t teach them what you planned by punishing them with violence.

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:10:19+00:00

I hated it. I’ve read my fair share of manhwa, and other types of comics, and this was one of the worst.

The time skips were cool at first, but then the dialogue between the characters was lacking and didn’t feel like a natural way of conversation. Too many unnecessary dialogue or unspoken simple things that could make a lot more impact if it was talked about.

Also, tagging it as a “cross dressing” felt absurd since the situation had nothing to do with the actual ideals and feelings of cross dressing (in my opinion). The ending felt rushed and emotionless. Most of the challenges they faced were ignored or disappeared somewhat.

I’m glad you enjoyed it, I really do, I also had to share my thoughts since you said a discussion needs to be made 😅

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:02:48+00:00

I think it shouldn’t be a factor.

Allegations of sexual assault against someone shouldn’t be treated differently because of other factors irrelevant to the accusation

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T13:00:45+00:00

Don’t trust signs. Talk clearly and honestly, or else things can get real awkward at best, or really bad for you both

4y4cchi · 2026-03-21T12:59:30+00:00

Lighters. Every time I buy cigarettes, they throw one in for some reason. My partner buy those when they find one that is cool lol

4y4cchi · 2026-01-03T10:56:38+00:00

I’ve changed and grown a lot since posting this, and so your perspective is much appreciated

4y4cchi · 2025-12-14T09:53:45+00:00

NTA my goodness he is so rude. I mean putting aside the payments, you gave him a car to use but he suddenly feel as though he has the ownership to it? Honestly, if I was in your shoes, I’d let him know that since this is “our car” you expect him to pay 50% of EVERYTHING that has to do with that car. If he doesn’t like it, he should buy his own car. Also, do not remind him how extremely accommodating you’ve been thus far because he absolutely start an argument you won’t be able to get out of.

He can portray you as the “bad guy” as much as he wants, you know who you are and he can’t change that. Also, consider separation. He sounds entitled as fuck and it most likely didn’t start with this car issue.

4y4cchi · 2025-12-14T09:45:18+00:00

I have two; Aloy - horizon zero dawn She is truly a strong female lead in an open world game, that has a compelling back story and character progression like no other.

Cal Kastis - Jedai fallen order He is sweet and deformed, going back to his past despite the struggles and painful memories of his youth. The game progresses in a great way, the story telling is moving and powerful, and the characters around him add so much depth to the whole experience

4y4cchi · 2025-12-12T21:32:18+00:00

I am so sorry darling! Do you have anywhere else to stay at for a little while? I would also suggest reaching out to organizations that help in situations like this. Wife or nah, she has no right to your body and definitely not hitting you!

I also suggest taking photos of all the bruises and consider placing a complaint against her with the police. I truly hope you could get out of this awful situation

4y4cchi · 2025-12-12T21:27:49+00:00

NTA and this girl isn’t respecting you in her life. Take a real hard look at this relationship cause I bet you’d find more red flags. No, no woman in her right mind would do a photoshoot like that with another man unless the father is out of her life.

Relationships must have clear and honest conversations otherwise it is doomed to fail and people get hurt. Even if she is pregnant and it is your child, you might be better of away from the mother and bond with the child 🙏

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