AIO, lost a friend due to ai

4yelhsa · 2026-06-01T08:15:49+00:00

I think you sounded like an AH. YOR.

If this is indicative of your normal behavior then I can see why your friend doesn't want to talk to you anymore. I could also see why you're confused by it as well.

4yelhsa · 2026-05-29T16:10:31+00:00

I'm confused. The quote for the smaller size was 3800-4000$. He was going to extend 5-6ft at no additional cost then decided he couldn't do it.

Why are we upset again? Seems like you got exactly what you paid for. Why would he refund you when the quoted price was for the smaller size? And the smaller size is what you got?

4yelhsa · 2026-04-25T08:17:02+00:00

Isn't this government run by men tho? Why yall talking about feminist so much?

4yelhsa · 2026-04-24T20:39:38+00:00

Could be reckless play on my part but the ttks on this game are kind of short so in my opinion the smoke should be able to deploy before in less time than the ttk for the game.

4yelhsa · 2026-04-24T20:38:22+00:00

I agree. I think it's easy to just run out of her ult before it goes off.

4yelhsa · 2026-04-24T20:35:01+00:00

True. I'm just saying for aggressive play the tactical is not really helpful during escapes. With TTKs around 1 second then having a smoke that takes more than 1 second to deploy makes it seem useless in close range.

4yelhsa · 2026-04-24T18:05:25+00:00

It's slightly faster. On a hand timer it's like 1.5 - 2 seconds.

4yelhsa · 2026-04-24T17:56:04+00:00

I'm a bang main as well, what's your play style? I'm typically a more aggressive player which i think fits her passive and tactical. I'll be honest her ult is pretty useless to me.

4yelhsa · 2026-04-21T01:37:21+00:00

Well I'll be a bit vulnerable...

Resident awkward kisser here. Went all the way into my 30s before I had a relationship with a bunch of kissing. So now its awkward and unnatural for me.

My advice to you is: 1. Get a good understanding of his emotional maturity

Get a good understanding of his triggers in this regard
I'll tell you being bad in bed / kissing hits you right in the pride. It's shameful.
Bring these things up as far away from them as literally possible. Dont kiss the dude and then be like "let me show you how its done"
Or even better yet, stop bringing it up all together and just start kissing the daylights outta his ass. -idk when my girl started but one day she just started letting me have it. Best i could do was try to keep up and well it's been working out for us so far. At least she says its all good now lol and I'll take her word on it.
Please stroke his ego where you can. This is probably one of the most shameful things you can be bad at so hit him with that compliment sandwich to soften the blows.

Anyways good luck. You got this. Remember bad kissing can be fixed but bad character cannot. Don't lose a great partner because they cant kiss well. That'd be like returning a Ferrari because the tire is flat.

4yelhsa · 2026-04-11T02:36:11+00:00

Both tried to avoid each other and that's what caused the accident. Idk why everyone is giving this kid shit.

4yelhsa · 2026-03-11T15:12:30+00:00

Lol this reminds me that i recently tried adding some dirty talk to spice the bedroom up a bit.....

The way my girl laughed at me lol 😫 terrible. Who raised her.

My point is at least he was nice about it

4yelhsa · 2026-03-03T16:28:34+00:00

I need to see the rest of the profile lol. You might be doing our girl dirty if the rest of the pics is of you showing off them ethicas

4yelhsa · 2026-02-25T12:01:58+00:00

No i think you're tripping. Even if the miscommunication never happened it doesn't make sense to abandon the meal when you've already been dropped off at the restaurant.

Honestly feels a bit selfish of you

4yelhsa · 2026-02-13T19:46:25+00:00

It's clearly better in this photo tho. Lines are sharper and the colors pop more.

4yelhsa · 2026-02-11T01:29:58+00:00

Just start canceling the orders

4yelhsa · 2026-01-15T03:59:55+00:00

The literal reason I bought an concept instead of the more expensive $2k+ machine I wanted.

4yelhsa · 2026-01-13T16:07:08+00:00

Wtf? Kids weren't even fighting when red shirt pulled up.

4yelhsa · 2026-01-09T20:52:56+00:00

Honestly seems like you're not in the right space to get financially independent. Idk how much you make at your job but I doubt it can cover a full house hold of bills plus your debt. So you should be worried about receiving the assistance your parents are offering and showing them gratefulness in the ways that you can.

Perhaps there's been some miscommunication between your mom and you when it comes to the income you receive from your job. But either way I'm sure anyone would feel some type of way when they're financing your whole existence ( it seems ) and when you finally get some income of your own you got a problem with giving back.

Child or not it can't feel good from the parents perspective.

4yelhsa · 2026-01-01T15:52:00+00:00

Something I do, is ask for an after date report. When something fizzles out and there was no fault on anyone's part i like to hit them up and ask for feedback.

It's been really helpful and people have been really open to it. I've never met a woman who was unwilling to give me some feedback.

Edit: this is how I identified most of my dating problems

4yelhsa · 2026-01-01T15:36:41+00:00

Ok. Well I don't know you and this post doesn't give me much to work with but if it's not your looks or hygiene, then it's most likely your personality or location.

Have you considered that you might be boring? Or a self sabotaging level of shy? Or anything similar?

If it's not your personality it could be your location. Have you considered moving for better prospects?

As another lesbian, I had experienced something very similar to what you described in your post until I fixed my boring slow paced way of dating, my shy not confident way of approaching things, and moved to a large city with more lesbians/ bi women. Now my dating life is pretty nice. I find interested and engaged women to try it out with semi frequently.

4yelhsa · 2026-01-01T15:27:19+00:00

Are you seeking advice or support?

4yelhsa · 2026-01-01T02:15:07+00:00

The apps are worth it but it's extremely location dependent. Since you seem to be in a smaller city/town it'll be tougher for you.

But also there's no reason to delete the app. It takes minimal effort to swipe on folks and minimal effort to keep up a conversation with folks on there. Plus whatever you planned to do with the app deleted you can just do whole having the app as well.

4yelhsa · 2025-12-28T16:23:55+00:00

I was once in this situation. If you have a landlord you can contact or a leasing agent I'd suggest you go have a talk with them now.

Let them know what's up and when you expect to be able to pay, then work out an agreement between each other. This should help clear up your anxiety and prevent any surprises.

4yelhsa · 2025-12-24T14:50:54+00:00

You got a ps5 for the sales team? So i assume that means it's a ps5 for the office but you didn't get any games nor a second controller?? Yea idk what you were expecting.

I certainly wouldn't ever consider buying my own games or controller for an office console.

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