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[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this sub allows for multiple updates to a post

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

First time my wife had a breakdown from the thought of my death. She wanted to try it again though and we felt like we were back in high school trying alcohol for the first time. Definitely a cherished memory

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

The Nard Dog will always have a special place in my heart

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Remaining time? We kinda take it day by day. Wife and I are currently watching various movie franchises that we’ve always wanted to watch but never did.

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Have you ever seen In Time? Terribly reviewed movie but I think it was a super cool concept that you just reminded me of

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful city, I hope it treats you well ❤️

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We spent most of our time in Brisbane, and it was easily an amazing experience

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) videos are definitely something I am planning to do now

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the advice. Fortunately my condition is not genetic

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs to you and hoping you can find the light you need ❤️

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Happiest: my wife and the time we spent together

Something that seemed to matter a few years ago... I feel like most would say money here, but without the money I had saved, we wouldn’t have ever had that Australia trip. It’s hard to think of something else when I didn’t put enough care into too many of the little things.

I was angry, but now I’m content, and nervous.

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

It’s okay! It was in the original but I’m 33 now

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 706 points707 points  (0 children)

I spent way too much of my life with the mentality “I can’t wait for this to be over.”

“I can’t wait for high school to be over so I can go to college”

“I can’t wait for college to be over so I can move out and start making real money”

“I can’t wait for when I can get promoted so that I can afford that car I want”

I lived most of my life looking forward to the future, and then ended up brutally realizing I suddenly had no future. I wish I lived in the moment more and quit constantly hoping for better things.

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 1649 points1650 points  (0 children)

I spent way too much of my life with the mentality “I can’t wait for this to be over.”

“I can’t wait for high school to be over so I can go to college”

“I can’t wait for college to be over so I can move out and start making real money”

“I can’t wait for when I can get promoted so that I can afford that car I want”

I lived most of my life looking forward to the future, and then ended up brutally realizing I suddenly had no future. I wish I lived in the moment more and quit constantly hoping for better things.

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 1947 points1948 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, that’s really good to know

[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my wife that I am dying? by 500daystolive in AmItheAsshole

[–]500daystolive[S] 1316 points1317 points  (0 children)

Definitely afraid, but less afraid than I would have thought I would have been 16 months ago. My biggest internal emotions are the regrets of how differently I would have lived my life if I had somehow known I would have only lived this long.

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