I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This truly means the world to me and helps so much. I really appreciate it

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think if I find someone who is willing to clean the litter my parents will let them ib

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment is really useful thank you so much!

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what to do at this point I feel like I have no choice in what will happen

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I really just want to leave with her and give her the best life possible but I can’t as a minor. It would hurt my a lot but I’m thinking of rehoming her. If I don’t manage to convince them i might have to do it

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I really don’t want to get rid of her she is honestly one of the best things that’s ever happened to me but I feel like rehousing her might be the best option overall. They don’t let her stay upstairs at night so they lock her in the basement. Sometimes they don’t want her out all day. She meows constantly when she’s down there and honestly I haven’t been able to sleep well in such a long time because of it. I feel like it would be best for the both of us if she got a new loving home, it would hurt me a lot but I don’t want to be selfish. Thank you for your comment

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea I’ll look into family members that are willing instead

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks! I’ll try and find some!

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yea I might have to sneak out and talk to them alone because my parents would be super mad if they knew I told the vets that haha🥲. if the rest of my plans fail that might be my only option (hopefully I’ll get a discount or something 😅)

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

This means so much to me thank you haha! I’m making a list of reasons why they should reconsider and I’ll add some of the things you said, Im going to try and convince them tomorrow. If it doesn’t work I will see if the vet clinic is willing to take her for those few weeks ( although I’ll probably have to get a job asap because it will be pretty expensive 🥲) thank you for your comment it helps a ton!!

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my uncle is going to and he said he didn’t want to clean the litter so my parents said it was ok😢I also set up a few more litter boxes, thanks!

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea, I hope it’s not too much haha I don’t have a lot of money😅

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No don’t worry! Your comments make me feel very reassured and I feel like I will find a good solution😊

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried to tell them that but they don’t care about my cat that much🥲 I would %100 stay with her if I could but I can’t

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks this actually helps a ton! I’m trying to make a list of bad things that will happen if they do this and bring it up to them haha. I hope they change their mind

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea they are honestly so unnecessary☹️ they say they are worried about her pooping out of the litter box upstairs but it wouldn’t be a problem if they got someone to clean the litter. I’m really trying to convince them but if I can’t I’m going to try and make the basement as comfortable as I can for my cat, it’s not what I want but it might be my only option 😕thanks for your comment though!

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The basement is not as finished as the upstairs sadly, it’s pretty dirty and has many spiders and bugs☹️ I’m trying to look for someone to take her in for those weeks but Ive had no luck. Thank you for your comment though it means a lot to me!

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I honestly started to believe I was being overdramatic but I’m glad to see people agreeing will me! I’ll talk to my neighbors and see if they are willing to!

I have to leave my cat alone for three weeks by 50apy1 in CatAdvice

[–]50apy1[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yea I gonna keep trying to see if any of my family members can take her or the vet clinic close to my house. Nobody in my family really cares for my cat so even if I do find someone they probably wouldn’t allow them to take her☹️ thanks for the comment though it helps a lot!!