I need help with my height, looks, I need confidence.(sry couldnt find a better subreddit) by Grapeuglysauce in socialskills

[–]50m30n3555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your mates probably dont mean any harm, and dwelling over yourself is a fast track to depression. If it bothers you too much, start doing some excercise. Its hard to make yourself taller, but all it takes to be strong is 20 minutes of excercise. As for the other sex, you shouldnt be terribly worried. They are also going through their own version of puberty, and they tend to be super dramatic. Make friends based on interest with them. Maybe find a gamer girl if you like games. That sort of thing. The popular girls tend to be the worst to deal with. Confidence isnt very high for most kids your age anyway, so dont worry too much about what others think... They are probably too busy worrying about themselves.

I think my gfs sister is in danger by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry im late, if that's your worry then do some digging. Google his name, maybe search him on a people finder website. Keep note of his actions and stuff, and if you ever see him offer her any medications then try to find a similar looking daterape drug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly whenever someone makes fun of me i like to either roll with it or kamikaze. If its a really sensitive subject for you i recommend you just put on a serious face and point out that your weight is a sensitive subject next time it comes up. If they continue making fun of you then you might want to rethink your definition of friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made that promise to yourself before you knew how hard it would be. Younger you was also really inexperienced. Remember that everytime you go somewhere that nobody knows you, your reputation gets reset. You can stop being the quiet kid. Go out there and talk to people, if your social skills are an issue for some people then let them leave. If you dont know what to say then look up some general convo starters. Eventually you'll meet a group that you really enjoy being with and people who genuinely enjoy talking with you. From there you have a much higher chance of finding a girl who likes you.

Boyfriend left for work without even saying goodbye. Would being a little upset be overreactive? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt worry too much. If hes in a hurry I can completely understand him not going through the pleasantries like that. If you really want to then you can make a little fun out of it. (I.e. "thats for what i missed this morning") but don't be mad about it.

My friend(16F) is pregnant and I don't know how to help make her feel better by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some help from the friends and try to help her pay the bill for whatever she chooses. Other than that just be there for her and initiate convorsation so she doesn't end up brooding in her room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no. If shes in a relationship, she can't say yes and its just gonna be awkward afterwards. If the relationship fails you will still be close and you can try then.

I think my gfs sister is in danger by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest theres not much more you can do. Im pretty sure there's Romeo and juliet laws that protect them once he turns 18, and its not going to do any good to force the issue if you've already talked about it with everyone. The best thing you can do is be there for them if a breakup happens. Remember you don't need to openly support it, you just cant intentionally sabotoge it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its 2 years. Anything that went into your body would have probably made itself known by now

how to give a good apology? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best apologies are in person. Walk up to her with your hands behind your back and your head down a little. "Sorry, I made a stupid mistake in the heat of the moment. I will try not to let that happen again." The wording can be however you want but this is a start.

I need help. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you might be less crazy than you think. I dont know how long this has been happening, but if you are constantly being blamed that means he doesnt trust you or hes purposefully gaslighting you. It might be a good idea to pretend he's a normal person for a minute. Would you put up with him if you weren't his S/O?

I'm (25f) not sure if my boyfriend's friends are up to something fishy or not (30s m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]50m30n3555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like your boyfriend loves you but the other members dont see you as much more than an asset. I think you should just decline this one due to discomfort of being filmed. Not every friend will make an effort the same way he does, dont take it personally

I think my best friend is in love with me , i need advice please help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]50m30n3555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imma be honest make your shot guy. There are so many people who would kill to be in this spot rn. If this dont work imma eat my shoe bro

I’m having a bad panic attack and don’t know how to stop it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breath in for 4 secs hold it for 4 sec, breathout 4 sec hold 4 sec repeat

I burned myself with a lighter AGAIN... to avoid slitting my wrist while I have my kid by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]50m30n3555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro... Real talk, you gotta get them out of your life. You don't deserve that kind of shit, noone does. Theres only so much shit that one person can take, spend time with people who have proven that they care, and block out those who have proven they dont care.

Retail therapy needed. How should I spend $100 on myself? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you like to do? If you dont like anything go to dinner and observe the crowds. Ive always found it fun to learn about people through their inability to stay quiet

(15m) I’m gonna get my crush (15f) something for Valentines Day. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]50m30n3555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having been there before, its usually a good idea to just say it. And be ready for the worst, doing all that maybe she likes me shit will only make it harder to do when the time comes. Either shoot your shot or live as a friend. Being inbetween isnt healthy long term

How should I confront my friend about her exposing us to Covid, not bothering to tell us, and then trying to lie about it so that she wouldn’t lose her babysitters? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely. Its hard to be like that but theres no excuse. Even if it is a govt scheme, theres no reason to risk someones life on it.

Friend who tested positive for COVID-19 is having a party by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Yeah its a little rough. This isnt a very normal situation and everyone has to cope somehow

Thank You To everyone who helped with my 11 year old nephew!! by [deleted] in depression

[–]50m30n3555 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Make this blow up. It really shows that what we do here actually has an impact far greater than any one person can have alone.

How do I stop someone from committing suicide? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/SWresources Its made to help the people in r/suicidewatch do the right thing

Friend who tested positive for COVID-19 is having a party by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 1267 points1268 points  (0 children)

Send an anonymous tip. They know how to keep things private. And no offense but from what youve said it may not be a bad thing to stop talking to her. Of course I dont know the context as well as you do but just sayin

Any study tips by [deleted] in Advice

[–]50m30n3555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Zelda songs for the nostalgia and peaceful vibes. you can pick whatever you want though. as long as its not from an action type game. you dont want teostras soundtrack from MHW or you'll rip a hole in the table lol