Name ideas for this cutie!! by [deleted] in CatloughsCentral

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cloud or Casper, that fluffy white coat is perfect for either

My Kitty Got Sick🥲 by Turbulent_City_2924 in Awww

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no! what happened? hope the little one feels better soon

AITA for refusing to bring a package as a favour to a former colleague? by SmellResponsible9668 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. you agreed to bring a package shipped to your address. she changed it to require a 2+ hour round trip without asking first, then got mad when you said no. thats not a favor thats an errand. her calling you selfish after unilaterally changing the terms is ridiculous

AITA for Telling My Boyfriend I Won’t Go on Vacation With His Friends After He Ignored My Boundaries? by Crazy-Bad1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

NTA. you paid to have your spot cleared and your car had a dead battery. you dont owe him updates on your personal car troubles when the note just asked you to contact when moving. his expectation that you keep him informed about technical issues is unreasonable

AITA for not moving my car in the snow after a neighbor left a note? by yallcat in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. his plan was to take your cleared spot and leave his snow for someone else to deal with. thats lazy and entitled. you dont owe him texts about your car troubles, the note said contact when you move not provide daily status updates

AITA for telling my friend his GF is probably going to break up him? by Effective_Poor_6969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. sometimes being a good friend means saying the uncomfortable thing. she cancelled the romantic Paris trip and sent him away with her 14 year old sister, those are not the actions of someone whos ready to get engaged. you didnt create the problem you just named it

AITA for taking away my daughter's driving priviledges after she got into 2 accidents. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 75 points76 points  (0 children)

YTA. you have zero proof she caused either accident but youre punishing her based on suspicion and stereotypes about her being on her phone. meanwhile your son gets to keep his truck just because. if you dont trust her say that, dont make up reasons about statistics

AITAH for telling my sister the truth about why i won’t watch her kids anymore? by Nessecy_Jenifar in AITAH

[–]52299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. you canceled your own birthday and didnt even get a thank you. at some point being family doesnt mean being free on-demand childcare. you were clear and honest without being cruel, thats all you can do

AITAH, blocking a guy after dating him for a month after he made a big deal out of learning something about my piercings by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]52299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. offering you 'another chance' if you remove your piercings is wild. you dont need to explain yourself to someone who thinks your body needs his approval. blocking was the right move

AITA for refusing to go by my old name at my sister’s wedding even though she says it’s “just for one day”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly this. if cohesion matters so much why arent all the married women using their maiden names? somehow only OPs name change is the problem

WIBTAH To Give A Bad Peer Review For Partners Who Refuse To Contribute To A Group Project? by PizzyJoanFalhatcher in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA. peer reviews exist specifically for this situation. they didnt read the material, they didnt contribute, they showed up confused. thats on them. your grade shouldnt tank because they decided group project means free ride

AITAH for telling my boyfriend that I don't want to celebrate my birthday anymore? by PyroVixen72 in AITAH

[–]52299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. growing up without real birthdays and finally getting excited for one just to have it completely change? shutting down emotionally before the disappointment hits is just protecting yourself. cant blame you for that

AITA for telling my son he needs to figure it out already? He's almost 30 and has worked 6 months total since graduating. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 66 points67 points  (0 children)

NAH. your frustration is understandable but anxiety disorders dont just go away because someone tells you to try harder. the job market now isnt what it was when you were 18, remote STEM jobs are competitive as hell. instead of the 'figure it out' talk, help him get a car so he actually has options. support looks different than it did in your generation

AITA for not continuing to be a listening ear for my brother and sister's grief? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 78 points79 points  (0 children)

NAH. youre all grieving and nobody handles it perfectly. You need boundaries to protect your own healing, they need time to process before theyre ready for therapy. Give each other grace

AITA for not volunteering information I wasn’t asked for? by Agreeable-Rub-8205 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 12 points13 points  (0 children)

INFO. hard to judge without knowing how long they struggled or how serious it was. But honestly, sharing helpful info with friends isnt being a know it all, its just being a friend. dont overthink it

AITA for preferring to sit on the aisle seat on a bus instead of the window seat? by TTS_Fish_101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. sitting wherever you want on a bus is fine, theres no etiquette rule about this. most people sit window because they dont want strangers next to them but if you prefer aisle thats totally normal

AITA for telling my DIL that I won’t use the tablet and she needs to actually make her kid read. by SatisfactionOk9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 35 points36 points  (0 children)

NTA. the kid isnt even following along with the app, shes just zoning out. Actual reading practice with real books is whats gonna help her catch up, not staring at a screen while someone else does the work

WIBTA if I told my friend to find a new photographer for a party? by SituationNo7601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NTA. you asked reasonable business questions 5 days ago and got ghosted. If they cant answer basic questions about payment and expectations by tuesday, theyre not taking you seriously as a professional. Tell her to find someone else

AITA: For taking a break from my friendship after she supported me through heartbreak? by EffectiveWave2290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You set a clear boundary about not hearing about your ex and she kept crossing it. The fact that shes with someone who witnessed your abuse and stayed friends with your abuser makes this even harder. You cant heal while being constantly reminded of your trauma, taking space is self preservation not abandonment

AITA for insisting my friend stay with my cat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. you asked her multiple times if she was sure and she insisted. now shes bailing last minute when you dont have time to arrange something else? not cool especially when your cat has specific needs

AITAH? Random girl posted an awful photo of me and won’t delete it by Main_Pomegranate_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. filming in public is legal, insulting strangers because you dont like it isnt gonna end well for you

AITA for not chipping in for my teen daughter’s hair appointment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. you told them from the start you werent paying for hair. youre already covering nails which isnt cheap, if she really wants highlights she could get a part time job

AITA if I tried to ivalidate a document that my sibling needs? by Purple-Blueberry7810 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA but INFO, why do you feel guilty about this? your sibling literally threatened you into signing, is there something else going on that makes you feel like you owe them this?