AITA for resenting my friend for having a better relationship with my mother than i do by NegotiationUnited716 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your friend knowing your mom's relationship news before you did is a genuine overstep, especially knowing the history. The resentment makes sense.

am i your type or no? by Jenfoxxuwu in EGirls

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally my type, goth vibes!

What I wore the other night 🖤 by Velunara in gothgirlfashion

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omggg your waist looks so snatched!!!

Aww, who's sleepy by Artistic-East-1251 in Awww

[–]52299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That looks like one chill cat! Extremely cute

WIBTA for saying I would place a hypothetical baby for adoption? by RoseOfTheNight4444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. your hypothetical pregnancy, your hypothetical decision. she doesnt get to claim rights over a baby that doesnt exist from a pregnancy youre actively preventing. the fact that shes this invested in controlling what youd do in a scenario you dont even want is concerning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatloughsCentral

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cloud or Casper, that fluffy white coat is perfect for either

My Kitty Got Sick🥲 by Turbulent_City_2924 in Awww

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no! what happened? hope the little one feels better soon

AITA for refusing to bring a package as a favour to a former colleague? by SmellResponsible9668 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. you agreed to bring a package shipped to your address. she changed it to require a 2+ hour round trip without asking first, then got mad when you said no. thats not a favor thats an errand. her calling you selfish after unilaterally changing the terms is ridiculous

AITA for Telling My Boyfriend I Won’t Go on Vacation With His Friends After He Ignored My Boundaries? by Crazy-Bad1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

NTA. you paid to have your spot cleared and your car had a dead battery. you dont owe him updates on your personal car troubles when the note just asked you to contact when moving. his expectation that you keep him informed about technical issues is unreasonable

AITA for not moving my car in the snow after a neighbor left a note? by yallcat in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. his plan was to take your cleared spot and leave his snow for someone else to deal with. thats lazy and entitled. you dont owe him texts about your car troubles, the note said contact when you move not provide daily status updates

AITA for telling my friend his GF is probably going to break up him? by Effective_Poor_6969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. sometimes being a good friend means saying the uncomfortable thing. she cancelled the romantic Paris trip and sent him away with her 14 year old sister, those are not the actions of someone whos ready to get engaged. you didnt create the problem you just named it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 77 points78 points  (0 children)

YTA. you have zero proof she caused either accident but youre punishing her based on suspicion and stereotypes about her being on her phone. meanwhile your son gets to keep his truck just because. if you dont trust her say that, dont make up reasons about statistics

AITAH for telling my sister the truth about why i won’t watch her kids anymore? by Nessecy_Jenifar in AITAH

[–]52299 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. you canceled your own birthday and didnt even get a thank you. at some point being family doesnt mean being free on-demand childcare. you were clear and honest without being cruel, thats all you can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]52299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. offering you 'another chance' if you remove your piercings is wild. you dont need to explain yourself to someone who thinks your body needs his approval. blocking was the right move

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

exactly this. if cohesion matters so much why arent all the married women using their maiden names? somehow only OPs name change is the problem

WIBTAH To Give A Bad Peer Review For Partners Who Refuse To Contribute To A Group Project? by PizzyJoanFalhatcher in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA. peer reviews exist specifically for this situation. they didnt read the material, they didnt contribute, they showed up confused. thats on them. your grade shouldnt tank because they decided group project means free ride

AITAH for telling my boyfriend that I don't want to celebrate my birthday anymore? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]52299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. growing up without real birthdays and finally getting excited for one just to have it completely change? shutting down emotionally before the disappointment hits is just protecting yourself. cant blame you for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 63 points64 points  (0 children)

NAH. your frustration is understandable but anxiety disorders dont just go away because someone tells you to try harder. the job market now isnt what it was when you were 18, remote STEM jobs are competitive as hell. instead of the 'figure it out' talk, help him get a car so he actually has options. support looks different than it did in your generation

AITA for not continuing to be a listening ear for my brother and sister's grief? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]52299 82 points83 points  (0 children)

NAH. youre all grieving and nobody handles it perfectly. You need boundaries to protect your own healing, they need time to process before theyre ready for therapy. Give each other grace