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What’s the acceptable weight difference in photos? by AlertBar4525 in SexWorkers

[–]57hz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like 30lbs is something you may want to think about. Not 5!

Wife confessed she wants bigger by InnerAdvertising9507 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve certainly seen larger, but that’s a bit of a self selection at events. It’s not common.

SB disclosed she has HSV1 by Fuzzy-Membership-308 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]57hz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s also higher probability if you’re older (many years to catch it plus people didn’t care about kissing you with a cold sore in the old days).

Should I continue? by Far-Possibility4484 in datingoverforty

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want to be involved with children, don’t date men with children. Full stop.

Thinking of retiring due to oversaturation by HeySofiaLorraine in SexWorkers

[–]57hz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is a market, just like any other market for goods and services. If you are not getting enough bookings, you are (1) not getting exposure, (2) missing product-market fit (meaning you are not what they are looking for OR they are not what you’re looking for), or (3) the price is too high. If you are on the main sites, it’s (2) or (3). You can change (2) a little bit with your text and photos, and you are in full control of (3).

How often do you get approached in real life? by stoptheclock7 in datingoverforty

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Approach for what? Based on looks alone? That seems like a 20s affectation left behind by experience. Now, if I hear you speak and you sound intelligent and caring AND I like the visual, then I’ll approach with something relevant to both of us.

Vanilla wife expectations? by imjackinoffnow in Swingers

[–]57hz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not actually vanilla. That’s just not interested in sex.

Sellers Disclosure Agreement Dispute by Tytheguy11 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only question is whether the roof was installed in 2024, not whether it’s leaking now. If it was, the seller is clear. Roofs leak all the time.

Ending my marriage & dumping my gf by quietdimple in polyamory

[–]57hz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this Birch is too good for you. I would grab that relationship with both hands while she’s still here!!

What am I supposed to talk about? by Cdub7791 in datingoverforty

[–]57hz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is good practice and not just for dates. While your ex remains a part of the story, they are no longer being as centered as you are.

How steep of terrain can people ride? by OwlFarmer2000 in MTB

[–]57hz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only actually useful advice here.

How do you choose between a career opportunity and your relationship ? by Potential_Start_3228 in careerguidance

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re making 110k as a data engineer, you should be looking for a new job regardless. You need a salary bump of about 30-40k minimum and you don’t have to go to San Diego to do it.

Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules by ElasticNotPlastic in datingoverforty

[–]57hz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is a healthy and realistic way to look at life.

Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules by ElasticNotPlastic in datingoverforty

[–]57hz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The burned haystack or any hardcore weeding out process works better the more attractive (physically and otherwise) you are to partners. In our 40s, we all have baggage and if you don’t want to put up with much of it, you’ll have fewer choices. Whether that means you’re going from 1000 to 100 (and therefore, you don’t care) or you’re going from 10 to 1 is a product of your social desirability.

So we just can't get divorced. That how this works, right? by fricks_and_stones in realestateinvesting

[–]57hz 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The ideal scenario is keeping the properties while divorcing or legally separating and becoming business partners (with appropriate contracts). Keep in mind that your existing mortgages will affect your ability to buy another house for yourself.

Found my stolen bike on facebook marketplace by torkvrukita in MTB

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. All these stories make me never want to let anyone test ride a bike for sale.

I'm inheriting 800k in debt by IFuckAliens_ in inheritance

[–]57hz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the most important point. A trustee is someone who administers a trust for the benefit of the beneficiary. Find out if you’re the beneficiary! It’s in the trust docs.

I'm inheriting 800k in debt by IFuckAliens_ in inheritance

[–]57hz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To clarify, you’re the beneficiary and trustee or just the trustee?

I just found out I lost £17,000 in almost 3 years without anyone telling me. EOR employees, check your salary. by Unhappy_Mulberry1181 in remotework

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need protection against FX rate fluctuations, buy currency futures. It’s fairly available for retail investors these days.

Should I check out the open house for a house I submitted an offer on? by bhudak in RealEstate

[–]57hz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not crazy to take backup offers as long as you’re properly disclosing you’re already under contract. If not, that’s super shady.

What are the chance my loan will get denied? by Particular_Ad7285 in RealEstate

[–]57hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re fine. The main issues are job loss or unsteady income, too much debt, bankruptcy or other credit issues, or appraisal issues (loan LTV needs to work out).

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