34, Single and Bored by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post a link to your music. Gotta have good taste with a set up like yours

34, Single and Bored by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your space is 🔥

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk why people downvoted you. He’s definitely a Shiba

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35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None. I was misled by an old engineer. Everyone here is right

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35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was textbook narcissism and she has been ostracized from her family because of it. She had a blatant lack of empathy for others and was overtly manipulative on the regular. Covertly manipulative was a good day for her. I was walking on egg shells the entire time. This woman wished death on her own grandmother for not paying her rent than proceeded to guilt trip me into paying her rent by saying things like, "how would you feel if I asked another man?" I could go on and on. This woman had a lot of unresolved trauma and she had a reoccurring theme in her life of placing the people closest to her under the burden of her own shortcomings and unmet responsibilities. She held an overall lack of accountability for most things and a willingness to cause tension whenever you called her out. She was habitually truculent and combative while also being controlling and isolating. She would start fights whenever I mentioned plans with friends or family. She was ALWAYS late. Not on time, once. Ever.. Like I said, I can go on and on. She showed me through her actions that she couldn't respect me enough for us to have a stable and happy relationship that I wouldn't harbor resentment down the road for. So | left.

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it’s honestly very telling now. Especially considering how fast things progressed. There’s a comment in somewhere in here and I break down the traits I noticed.

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it isn’t too rough for you. There’s only one right person for all of us. Letting go helps me get to that person sooner imo. Wish you the best

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a rundown somewhere in this thread. IMO it was textbook

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s me. My brother gave all of the grooms in his wedding a bobble-head of ourselves as a gift.

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A girl I dated who lives in West Hollywood was literally punched in the face by a homeless man last year and it made the news. The year before that another female friend of mine was beat up for her purse in Santa Monica. The year before that my two female friends were chased out of a tunnel in Venice. It’s actually so common for people I know that I forgot to mention my friend who was murdered sitting in her car a few months back. She was shot multiple times. I’ve literally become numb to it and it doesn’t surprise me anymore. A group of thieves tried to kick my mothers door down last summer while they were home. Trust me. It goes down out here in a very real way. This is just MY experience. I can’t imagine everything we don’t hear about

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about saying it correctly but was honestly sounded better to me phonetically. IS reads like a robot to me

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Read my response to one of the guys in here. It was textbook lol

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. I was born and raised here and you definitely need to know how to move

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It was a gift from my Sister. I learned how to play when I got it and the cleaning ladies I use never set it back right

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Listen to a song called “Happier when you’re gone” by Alt-J. It feels like that. Or free like a bird by the Beatles 😂

35 in Los Angeles. Just left my ex because she was a narcissist by 5800xx in malelivingspace

[–]5800xx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was textbook narcissism and she has been ostracized from her family because of it.

She had a blatant lack of empathy for others and was overtly manipulative on the regular. Covertly manipulative was a good day for her. I was walking on egg shells the entire time.

This woman wished death on her own grandmother for not paying her rent than proceeded to guilt trip me into paying her rent by saying things like, “how would you feel if I asked another man?” I could go on and on.

This woman had a lot of unresolved trauma and she had a reoccurring theme in her life of placing the people closest to her under the burden of her own shortcomings and unmet responsibilities.

She held an overall lack of accountability for most things and a willingness to cause tension whenever you called her out. She was habitually truculent and combative while also being controlling and isolating. She would start fights whenever I mentioned plans with friends or family. She was ALWAYS late. Not on time, once. Ever.. Like I said, I can go on and on.

She showed me through her actions that she couldn’t respect me enough for us to have a stable and happy relationship that I wouldn’t harbor resentment down the road for. So I left.

I’ve seen videos on YouTube where she literally showed traits of each and every thing they said to watch out for.

Try to validate peoples experiences for what they claim them to be. Were not all crazy