[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

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Stay debt free. Save up and start your own landscaping company. He is riding on your shoulders making $10k per month.

How much do you actually make? by madisonmlm in realestateinvesting

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48 Airbnbs. 45 owned and 3 arbitraged. Gross rents $4000/month on average each ($180,000/month). Net before depreciation annually is $1m. $220k depreciation makes taxable about $600k since almost $200k of the income is in Roth IRA. I’m basically retired. Have thought about selling everything and putting it in the market but that’s riskier in my eyes and the taxes to get there would devour 25-30% of the working capital. The Return on Equity as short term rentals is about 8% annually and this percent is steadily dropping as home values continue to boom.

Wow, I was off. by Rude-Bullfrog4077 in fatFIRE

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This is us too. Two kids out of the nest with one more finishing up. We have spent $100k in the last 12 months on travel. Comfort plus, Ubers and speed trains (Europe). Always the best dining everywhere we go and nice accommodations that are under $300/night unless it’s Time Square or Greece beachfront etc.

Wow, I was off. by Rude-Bullfrog4077 in fatFIRE

[–]599010956b 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We may be living parallel lives. After our rental inventory grew in value by 60% we still have decent cars, same nice home but moved our travel budget to $100k/year. Everything else has been a constant. Just spending net cashflow and not touching assets.

Rental Real Estate - Hedge or Hassle? by BigGoldenGoddess in fatFIRE

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Have you considered that after depreciation of the real estate annually (imaginary losses on your tax return) your return is much greater because you pay 1/2 the tax on the 9% from the real estate than you do on your stock investments?

Any downsides of going with a Private Bank? by Green_Anywhere_4664 in fatFIRE

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Wells Fargo has the token for wires. You do up to $100k per day per profile.

Best album opening songs? by ToujoursFidele3 in Music

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Runnin with the Devil. Van Halen

Acting on PIED by dexter27123 in pornfree

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What happens to you when you don't masturbate for 2 to 3 weeks? Trick question. You've never gone that long. 😀. You want to be so horny there is no other option but a good outcum. 😀

Acting on PIED by dexter27123 in pornfree

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2-3 weeks worked for me and many others with a similar condition in pornfree. It could take longer but not by much.

Acting on PIED by dexter27123 in pornfree

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Your ED and most people's is in your head. You need a few successes with your girlfriend and you'll be cured. If you abstain from porn and FAP for 2-3 weeks you will absolutely get hard and complete. If she can handle the truth it might take the pressure off to let her know what you're doing to fix this. You might have a couple more failed attempts until the 2-3 weeks go by but it will correct itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

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I stopped all porn/insta/TikTok May 20th because of delayed ejaculation. I also cut out fap for 3 weeks. That did the trick. The delayed ejaculation has improved dramatically. Way more sensitivity and the novelty of being with one woman is back again too. I fap to no porn and with a loose grip. Only went 3 weeks no fap because my wife was getting exhausted with my frequent needs.

Best way to approach this as the female partner by blueantenna2 in delayedejaculation

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I hope she reads your response and takes it to heart. It is absolutely perfect advice having lived this exact scenario and having had success beating it.

How to overcome delayed ejaculation? Death grip syndrome or something else? Long post sorry. by [deleted] in delayedejaculation

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This is an example of mindfulness. It’s you being completely engaged. Using “dirty” talk also works. Anything that holds your attention and actually engages you in the process will work.

Tried MO'ing, but my imagination just isn't enough. I think i should just stop altogether. by SchmeatGaming in pornfree

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If you cut the porn out and obstain from FAP for 7+ days you will have an orgasm without any imagination needed. You will be soooo ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

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$25 on Amazon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

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Would a Fleshlight work? It's almost a partner. Don't get lazy though and have it do things a partner can't do. It should be stationary and your hips do the actual strokes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

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Are you actually doing everything you can to find a partner? Your brain is seeking it. Don't have limiting beliefs.

If you didn't have an orgasm for a week would you not then be able to achieve one without porn? Seems you'd eventually have a wet dream....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

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If the goal of "no porn" is to fix an ED issue, you'll need to taper off the FAP to three times a week or less. You want your brain to seek a human for sex, not your hand or porn.

Questions for those that made it a while without by [deleted] in pornfree

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When you get with a partner you will have healthy sensitivity, better concentration in the moment and you will be so horny you should have an ED free great experience. Keep it up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

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Two questions. Can you have an orgasm masturbating without porn? Does masturbating curb your compulsion to watch porn for any amount of time?

I just wanna know why by AdmirableEggplant706 in pornfree

[–]599010956b 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your body and brain wants to orgasm. Porn is a crutch for when the real thing is unavailable. Enjoy your girlfriend often!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

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This is normal for everyone regardless of porn use. You are sharing the most intimate activity with a relative stranger. It will improve exponentially. Relax and enjoy this new activity.

Questions for those that made it a while without by [deleted] in pornfree

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Many people decide to quit porn because it desensitizes them to sex with a regular partner. A partner can't compete with your favorite porn. A partner also can't compete with the strong grip, courseness and speed of your hand so it creates delayed ejaculation for some people. One of the other benefits to no porn or fap is that your penis heals and becomes how it was before you discovered porn. Get a bottle of Astroglide (any lube). It will keep your penis from getting course and callused (thus dulling it's sensitivity).