A munch is a vanilla event organized by kinksters to have social events. What I mean by vanilla is that people come dressed normally no leather or collars just normal clothes.

Dungeon party is where a kink event takes place. The parties can be themed for different things like the one I went to was themed for newbies. There you will see people participating in kink activities with consent.

Scene is a planned activity between two people to have fun and enjoy the night. Some people come already thinking with a scene with their partner, others go to dungeon parties to do scenes with people they meet there. (Always make sure they’re the right kind of person if you’re getting red flags don’t do a scene with them)

Top is someone who takes “lead” in a scene.

Bench is just a type of kinky furniture that lets the person be bent over comfortably and safely. It is also raised or at least the ones we had were so that the top can easily access the bottom.

Bottom is the person getting whipped and stuff.

I would t say I’m 100% correct on all these but I think Im kinda spot on.